M'nthaŵi yathu ino, kukhalapo kwa maulendo apakati komanso mabanja ndizochitika momwe anthu ambiri amakhala. Ndipo utali wokwanira. Kodi izi zingatheke kuti ubale ukhale patali?
Kupita patsogolo kwa sayansi ndi zamakono kwatipatsa ife thandizo lamphamvu kwambiri kuti tikwanitse kusunga bwino maubwenzi patali. Iyi ndi njira yothamanga kwambiri, ndipo kulankhulana kwachangu kumatanthauza, kudzera momwe mungalankhulire bwino kwambiri - mpaka banja logwirizana ndi makandulo.
Ubale wautali woterewu uli wochuluka bwanji, umadalira anthu okha, zosowa zawo mu ubale umenewu ndi zoyesayesa zomwe akufuna.
Ndipo apa sikuti ndi za banja basi komanso zapangidwe kale, ubwenzi wapamtima wapamtima. Mtsikana waulere amene akugwira ntchito yofufuza hafu yake, nayenso, sangapweteke kudziwa momwe angakhalire maubwenzi patali. Ndipotu, nkhaniyi imakhala yofunika chaka chilichonse, komanso chifukwa chakuti maubwenzi sangathe kupitirira patali chifukwa cha ntchito kapena phunziro, mwachitsanzo, komanso kuti achite nawo mbaliyi.
Chiyambi cha ubale wa munthu patali
Ambiri mwa anthu omwe ndimacheza nawo ndi azimayi ambiri amene amakumana pa malo ochezera a pa Intaneti, maofesi kapena malo ochezera a pa Intaneti. Mwinamwake, kupeza moyo wanu waukwati mu intaneti padziko lapansi tsopano ndi kosavuta kusiyana ndi usiku. Ndipo ngakhale mutadziŵa kwinakwake kudutsa, kudziwa wanu nkhani yanu chidwi mu "Odnoklassniki" kapena "Mu kukhudzana" kungakhale kwambiri wokongola kusankha kuposa abwino akale foni. Ndipotu sizinsinsi kuti zimakhala zovuta kwa anthu ena kuti azikonda kwambiri, koma n'zosatheka kukana malonda awo poyankhulana!
Chimodzimodzinso chingakhale kuchepetsa kulankhulana patali. Kawirikawiri chithunzi cha munthu pa intaneti ndi chowala komanso chokongola kuposa momwe iye alili. Kuphatikizanso apo, pochita ndi munthu palibe, ifeyo timayamba kunena kuti pali makhalidwe ena, ndizokhazikika, ndipo chenicheni chingathe kukhumudwitsa ndi zosiyana ndi zomwe tikuyembekeza.
Tangoganizirani kuti potsiriza ife tinapeza munthu wopanda yemwe ifeyo tilibe zosatheka. Tsopano mmawa wathu umayamba ndi chizindikiro cha sonorous cha ICQ, ndipo madzulo amapita kumbuyo kwa Skype.
Kodi mungasunge bwanji maubwenzi patali ndikuwapulumutsa?
Kaya pali chiyembekezo cha ubale wanu patali, nthawi yokha idzawonetsa. Pambuyo pake, chithandizo cha ubale uliwonse ndi khama, komanso palimodzi, ndipo ngakhale patali - ngakhale zowonjezera. Mwayi wokwera kumtunda ngati kupatukana ndi kanthaŵi kochepa kapena m'tsogolomu yodalirika mukukonzekera kugwirizananso.
Momwemo, psychology ya maubwenzi patali ndi sukulu yabwino yomvera, kukhulupirirana ndi kulemekezana wina ndi mzake.
Mfundo yaikulu - musagwiritse ntchito ICQ kapena Skype kuti mupeze mgwirizano. Kwa inu ndi njira yokha yolankhulana patali, kugawana zambiri za zomwe mukukhala, kuposa kupuma. Mangani ndondomeko yodzigwirizanitsa, kusinthanitsa zonse zomwe zachitika pa tsikulo, zomwe ziri zoyenera kusamalidwa kapena kungosangalatsa. Mvetserani zomwe mukuuzidwa, ndipo yang'anani mwatcheru zomwe zimachitika m'mawu anu - mukamachita patali, ndi kosavuta kuti muphonye nthawi imene munthu amafunikira kuthandizidwa ndi chifundo kapena azindikira kuti pali chinachake cholakwika. Chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti kuyankhulana tsiku ndi tsiku sikukhala kovomerezeka ndipo sikusintha.
Ndikofunika kukhalabe ndi kugonana kwa wina ndi mzake, kotero kuti chikondi chapafupi sichikhala bwenzi losavuta. Mwinamwake, chinali cholinga ichi kuti iwo anabwera ndi makamera a webusaiti!
Kawirikawiri, maulendo ambiri, koma osakhala otsika mtengo, koma ndi ofunika kwambiri kuti ubale ukhale patali. Wokondedwa, amene nthawi zina amabwera kudzakuchezerani, adzatsogolera anthu, ndikutenthetsa bedi lanu - chofunikira chofunikira kwa msungwana aliyense. Misonkhano yokha isakhale yowonongeka. Inde, zodabwitsa zimapangitsa kuti moyo wathu ukhale wowala, koma ntchito yosafunika mu tsiku "lomwelo" ingathe kukwiyitsa onse awiri kwa nthawi yaitali!
Ndipo musakhale moyo kuchokera kumsonkhano mpaka ku msonkhano! Moyo wokondweretsa kwambiri womwe umatsogola, umakhala wokondwera ndi wokondedwa wanu. Kuonjezerapo, padzakhala nthawi yocheperapo maganizo okhumudwitsa.
Inde, sikuti chiyanjano chilichonse chidzapambana chiyeso choterocho. Koma ndani anakuuzani kuti chinachake chimatsimikizira? Osati mabanja onse omwe ali ndi mwayi wowona tsiku ndi tsiku komanso kukhala pansi pa denga limodzi, amasandulika kukhala mabanja abwino kwambiri omwe ali ndi nthawi yaitali. Kapena kodi mwa njira ina amawateteza ku chiwembu? Ayi ndithu.
Khulupiriranani wina ndi mnzake, khulupirirani kuti mudzapambana, ndikusamalira chikondi chanu!