Kaya tsopano ndi yodzinenera kukhala wamwano, kapena chilango cha Mulungu, chomwe chiri chovuta kumenyana nacho ndipo sichikhoza kuthetsedwa mwanjira iliyonse. Mwina, kwa anthu ena, kudandaula ndikutetezera, khalidwe lodziwika bwino la khalidwe. Komabe, kudzikuza ndi zabwino kapena zoipa, izi ndi zomwe tiyenera kumvetsa.
Anthu okhudza anthu
Kuchita zamwano kapena kusokoneza kumawoneka ngati khalidwe loipa, loipa komanso loipa komanso lopanda ulemu ku zikhalidwe zamakhalidwe abwino, chikhalidwe kapena anthu omwe ali ndi maganizo apamwamba.
Kodi "munthu wamwano" amatanthauzanji kwa ambiri si chinsinsi. Aliyense ali ndi kumvetsetsa kwake kopanda tsankho komanso malingaliro olakwika kapena abwino omwe apanga kuchitika kotere. Mwiniwake, chodabwitsa ichi sichitha kutchedwa zoipa kapena zabwino. "Maganizo athu, kudziimira kwathunthu, amawapangitsa kukhala" oipa "kapena" abwino ".
Mu moyo wamakono, kudzikuza kuli ndi ufulu wokhalapo. Chifukwa kwa ambiri ndiko kutetezera chitetezo ndi chisalungamo cha dziko lozungulira, lomwe, muvomerezana, likukwanira mmalo mwathu.
Maganizo achinyengo "zahazhivayut" m'mutu mwa aliyense wa ife. Chilakolako chophwanya malamulo ndi zikhalidwe zilizonse, monga lamulo, zimakhalabe podziwa kwathu. Mwachidziwitso, tingatumize "kumlengalenga kuseri kwa nyenyezi" anthu onse, kapena munthu wina, komanso kuti tidziyese ngati anzeru kwambiri komanso osiyana kwambiri.
Zosangalatsa zamatsenga ndizoonetseranso munthu wamwano, zomwe zimafuna luso. Kunyada kumachititsa ena kusangalala ndi kuseka. Komabe, nthawi zambiri anthu amanyazi ambiri samatha kuseka, koma amakhumudwitsa munthu amene akutsutsana nawo ndi nthabwala zodabwitsa. Mwina mumayenera kudzizoloŵera ndi kumvetsetsa "chips" chotere, kapena kuchotsani kuyankhulana ndi anthu amatsenga - sungani mitsempha yanu.
Zakale za abambo
Poyamba, munthu wamatsenga amachititsa chidaliro, kukopa nkhanza, umuna komanso kugonana. Izi, ndithudi, kwa nthawiyo mpaka mtima wake wamatsenga ukukhudzani inu. Ndiye samalani, inu muyenera kumenyana mmbuyo kapena mwamsanga kudzipereka ndi kunyozedwa ndi manyazi. Amuna achikunja nthawi zambiri amakhala ofanana-pambuyo pa mapewa awo ndi zowawa zakuyanjana ndi mkazi, kusakhulupirika kwa abwenzi, kupanda chilungamo kwa munthu wawo. Zolephera zofanana zimasiya zithunzithunzi, ndipo ngakhale zipsyinjo pamtima, chokhululukirana chachitsulo chomwe chimagwiritsa ntchito chifukwa cha kusonyeza kuti munthu akudandaula.
Amatsenga abambo amakonda kukonda maubwenzi aubwenzi ogonana komanso osamva. Maganizo, makamaka chikondi, amakayikira, samakhulupirira. Kotero, iwo amati. Munthu wamatsenga ndi wovuta kwambiri ndipo sapezeka, ngakhale kuti izi zingamveke bwanji. Kunja kusonyeza mphamvu zake ndi kukhazikika, amabisa mosamala moyo wake, kotero kuti, pa nthawi ya umpteenth, wina samulavulira pamenepo. Inde, ndipo zimachitika ...
Zokhudza zathu, za mtsikana
Mkazi wamatsenga, monga mwamuna, akhoza kudziwonetsera yekha mwa njira imeneyi pamene akuyenera kutetezedwa. Koma nthawi zambiri, kudandaula kwa mkazi ndi gawo lofunika kwambiri la chifaniziro cha dona-ntchi. Izi zakhala zikudziwika kwambiri pakati pa hafu yokongola yaumunthu. Magazini, mabuku, malo osiyanasiyana a intaneti akungokhala ndi mauthenga okhudza momwe angapangire kuti akhale chidontho. M'dziko lamakono, kukhala chidontho ndi cholemekezeka, ndipo ndizojambula bwino. Kuwotcha si mkazi wamisala, koma mkazi wolimba ndi wodziimira. Ndipo kulondola, kusokoneza bongo sikugwira.
Kodi ndizomveka kulingalira funso la momwe tingachotsere chinyengo, pamene kwa ambiri ndilo moyo wamba. Mulimonsemo, mungathe kuchotseratu zamwano ngati mutaganiziranso ndikusanthula moyo wanu, zomwe zakhala zikugwirizana ndi maubwenzi akale. Kuti mumvetse kuti munakhumudwa, mukuwopa, mukhululukidwe ndikusiya zinthu zonse zosasangalatsa zomwe zinakupangitsani kukhala osasamala komanso osasamala. Mungathe kukonda anthu mutatha kudzikonda nokha. Kunyada kwa ena kumayamba ndi iwe. Khululukirani nokha zolakwitsa ndikusowa - izi ndizochitikira. Mukakhala okoma mtima, mwachidwi zonse zimasinthidwa.