Mwinamwake, palibe mkazi yemwe, mozama mu moyo wake, sangafune kukhala mfiti. Ayi, osati pa broomstick, osati Baba Yaga, koma ndi winawake ngati Bulgakov a Margarita. Amafunikira mphamvu kuti athetse moyo wake wovuta.
Kodi zimatani kuti mukhale mfiti?
Funso ndi momwe mungakhalire mfiti m'moyo weniweni? Momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito mphamvu yatsopano, chithunzi chotani chomwe mungasankhe ndi kupatsa ena kusintha kotereku. Momwemo, kukhalapo kwa chidziwitso champhamvu kwambiri kumapereka chikhalidwe chauzimu kwa mkazi aliyense. Anthu ambiri amadziwa kuganiza osati zoipa. Ndipo ngati mayi atemberera wina kuchokera pansi pamtima, chokhumbacho chikhoza kukwaniritsidwa. Kotero, mu uliwonse wa iwo, spell ili kale mwachirengedwe mwachirengedwe.
Ndichifukwa chake, mwinamwake, mtsikana aliyense, mkazi, osatchula akazi achikulire, anamva, kapena ngakhale mwayekha: "Mfiti"!
Mphamvu zauzimu pakuchita zabwino
Ambiri, komabe, amadzifunsa kuti akhale mfiti woyera. Kotero chikhalidwe cha mkaziyo chikukonzedwa, kuti ndi kofunikira kuti chisamalire okondedwa, kuwatchinga, kuwathandiza. Kotero, cholinga cha mfiti zambiri, chosamvetseka, si choipa, koma chabwino.
Tiyenera kumvetsetsa momwe tingakhalire mfiti weniweni. Osati azakhalire amwano kapena mayi wokwezeka, koma munthu akhoza kulowerera mu moyo wake zinthu zokoma zake. Inde, popanda chipiriro ndi chikhulupiliro cholimba chachilendo, izi sizingatheke.
Kawirikawiri, mfiti ndi omwe ali kale ndi achibale omwe akhala otere kapena omwe anali mwa chirengedwe. Koma zimakhalanso kuti msungwana akhoza kale ali wamng'ono kuti adziwe mwa iye yekha luso losayembekezereka kukwaniritsa chinthu chokha ndi mphamvu ya kuganiza. Zimakhalanso kuti pambuyo pochita mantha kwambiri - imfa ya wachibale, chovulaza chimene chimasokoneza moyo wamba, kuwomba mphezi, munthu aliyense mwadzidzidzi amapeza makhalidwe ena omwe analibe kale.
Mmodzi ayenera kudziwa momwe angakhalire mfiti m'moyo. Pokhapokha, mphatso iyi ilibe ntchito. Chinthu chachikulu ndicho kuphunzira momwe mungachithandizire: kuti mutha kugwiritsa ntchito mphamvu zomwe mayi amapeza popeza mwayi watsopano. Ngati atapatsidwa kale chinthu china choposa uzimayi ndi kuzindikira, ayenera kuyesetsa kukhala ndi luso lokha kapena osasokoneza iwo kuti adzikonzekere. Musanyalanyaze mau anu amkati, samverani zizindikiro za tsogolo ndi zochitika, mosamala mosamala anthu, nyama ndi chilengedwe.
Kwa iwo amene ali ndi chidwi cha momwe angakhalire mfiti, koma alibe talente yapachiyambi pa izi, malangizowa ndi okha
Choncho, kuti mukhale mfiti munthu ayenera kuphunzira mitundu yonse yodabwitsa, yopanda malire yomwe dziko lina silimene silingamvere, ndipo silidzatsegulidwa. Inde, kusintha konseku kuyenera kusungidwa mobisa kwambiri. Dzikoli sililikonda ilo pamene likufuna kuyang'ana. Ndipo, ndithudi, sitiyenera kuyembekezera zotsatira zam'tsogolo. Zovuta za tsiku ndi tsiku zidzangoyamba kutembenuka mosavuta, ndikuwonekeratu.