Makolo onse a achinyamata akuopa kuti mwana wawo angathe kulankhulana ndi kampani yolakwika. Koma simungathe kupatula mwana wanu kumudzi, kotero kuti athandize makolo ovutika m'nkhaniyi, tiona chifukwa chake izi zingatheke komanso zomwe ziyenera kuchitidwa.
N'chifukwa chiyani achinyamata akulowa makampani oipa?
Momwe mungamvetsetse zomwe zimayambitsa achinyamata, ngakhale banja losangalala, pamene ayamba kuphwanya ufulu wa anthu, kuthawa sukulu, kunyalanyaza, kodi amayamba kukhala ndi zizoloŵezi zoipa? Akatswiri a zamaganizo amalangiza makolo kuyamba kuzindikira kuti ana awo pa msinkhu umenewu sali ana konse, koma si akulu ngakhale. Choncho, kuti mukhale ndi chidwi ndi kampani yoipa, iwo akhoza pazifukwa zotsatirazi:
- kufunafuna kukhulupilika - pazaka zino, kulankhulana ndi anzanu ndi ntchito yoyamba, ndipo nthawi zambiri mphamvu ndi yovomerezeka ndizoipa;
- chifukwa chotsutsana kwambiri, chomwe chimakula kwambiri mwa achinyamata, sindifuna kukonda wina aliyense;
- Kufuna kukhala wotchuka - pambuyo pa anthu onse otchuka kusukulu ndi ophwanya malamulo, ndicho chifukwa amakopera achinyamata;
- chifukwa cha chidwi - kusowa nzeru komanso ufulu kumapangitsa chidwi ndi chilakolako chofuna kupeza chomwe chiri ( kusuta , kugula, kumenya);
- kufufuza malo a munthu m'magulu ndi chilakolako chachibadwidwe cha kuvomerezedwa ndi anthu, ntchito zambiri zoipa zimachitika "kwa kampani", ndi achinyamata omwe sanakhazikitse cholinga chawo pamoyo kuyesera kuti apeze izo mwachinyengo.
Nanga bwanji ngati mwanayo ali pa ubwenzi ndi "anthu oipa"?
Samalirani
Pogwiritsidwa ntchito ndi mavuto awo ogwira ntchito ndi apakhomo, makolo akungopatula nthawi yochepa ndi ana awo okalamba ndipo nthawi zambiri amasowa nthawi yomwe mwana wawo akungoyamba kumene kumudziwa. Izi zikhoza kutsimikiziridwa ngati iye: amamvetsera nyimbo zina, amaletsa kuti alowe m'chipinda chake, amakuletsani inu, ndipo akakumana naye ndi wamwano ndipo amabisa maso ake, amalephera kusukulu kapena ngakhale amapumuka. Ndikofunika kwambiri kumvetsera pamene anthu atsopano amawonekera mzere wa anzanu omwe ali achinyamata.
Kukamba mtima kwa mtima
Kuzindikira kusintha kwa khalidwe la mwana, nkofunikira kulankhula naye, koma zokambiranazi ziyenera kukhazikitsidwa malinga ndi malamulo awa:
- kulankhula momasuka momasuka - mu cafe kapena pa chikhalidwe;
- Ngati muli ndi mkangano, khalani ndi malingaliro anu ndipo muyambe kuyankhula pambuyo pa masiku angapo, pamene chiyanjano chikukula;
- Musati muwerenge makhalidwe, musati muziimba mlandu pa chirichonse;
- Perekani chitsanzo kuchokera pa zochitika zanu, funsani maganizo ake pa izi.
Chofunika kwambiri kuti muyankhule za abwenzi atsopano omwe mumawaona kuti ndi oyenera, afotokoze, chomwe simukukonzekera. Kumbukirani kuti malingaliro oyambirira ndi onyenga, musatengere malemba aliwonse pa achinyamata, yesani kuphunzira zambiri za abwenzi awa.
Gwiritsani ntchito limodzi ndi makolo ena
Kudziwa bwino ndi banja la mwana wanu kukuthandizani kuti muphunzire zambiri zokhudza abwenzi ake, komanso ndi chitsanzo cha banja lina, kutsimikizirani kuti zonena zanu ndi zenizeni, koma pazimenezi muyenera kuvomereza ndi makolo ena zokhudzana ndi zofanana, monga: kuyenda mpaka nthawi inayake.
Khalani bwenzi lake
Yambani kugwiritsa ntchito nthawi yochuluka ndi mwana wanu, phunzirani momwe mungalankhulirane , mupeze chidwi chophatikizana, ndi:
- kawirikawiri kambiranani naye;
- osanena zinsinsi zake, ngakhale kwa achibale;
- Musamuchititse manyazi kapena kumunyoza;
- Osatsutsa ndipo nthawi zambiri afotokoze chifukwa chake ndi zoipa ndipo n'zosatheka kuchita;
- Musamachepetse ufulu wake, musonyeze kuti mumamukhulupirira;
- funsani chikhululuko ngati muli ndi mlandu.
Sinthani khalidwe lanu
Kuti muyankhule za kuvulaza kwa chinachake, muyenera poyamba kukhala chitsanzo chake: chotsani zizoloŵezi zoipa, osalumbira, kuchita ntchito zapakhomo. M'malo mozengereza nthawi zonse, bwino kumuteteza kuti asawononge anthu ena, ndiyeno nkukambirana, chifukwa chake chinachitika.
Tenga nthawi
Pezani njira ina yoperekera nthawi yopanda malire: lembani pa gawo la masewera kapena bwalo, kugula galu kapena njinga.
Bwerani kudzawombola mu nthawi
Ngati zinthu zili kutali kwambiri ndipo mwanayo ali pachiopsezo cha ngozi ndi chitetezo chake, m'pofunika kusokoneza machitidwe oopsa kwambiri komanso nthawi zina, kuphatikizapo chifuniro chake.
Ngati mumalola kuti mwana wanu amve kuti mumamukonda ndipo mumanyadira, ndiye kuti ali ndi mavuto ndi zikhumbo zake zomwe angakufikeni, makolo ake, osati kukhala ndi achinyamata osasangalala.