Atsikana ambiri atatha kukhumudwa ndi kupweteka, ndipo pakapita kanthawi pali chilakolako chobwezera zonse zomwe zasokonekera. Ndondomeko yotereyi imakhala nthawi zonse ndipo mutu wake umasunthira kuchitapo kanthu.
Lero mungapeze nthano zambiri, monga izi kapena msungwanayo wobwezeretsa mchitidwe wa chiwembu, kuyang'ana zolaula ndi machimo ena. Akatswiri a zamaganizo amanena kuti malingaliro apamwamba sayenera kukhala enieni, chifukwa ndi bwino kuchita mwachidwi.
Ndibwino kubwezera chibwenzi chija?
Musanayambe kulingalira malingaliro otchuka kwambiri pakati pa akazi, ine ndikufuna kunena kuti ndikofunikira kulingalira kukhalapo kwa chibwenzi choyambirira cha wokondedwa, chomwe chingayambitse mavuto aakulu, kotero musati muwerenge.
Ndibwino kubwezera kwa mnyamata:
- Amayi ambiri amasankha kusokoneza "chidole" chokonda wokondedwa wawo, mwachitsanzo, kuwononga galimoto yake. Musati mutenge pang'ono, monga kokwanira kuthira valerian hood kapena kutsanulira mbewu kuti mukope nkhunda.
- Mukhoza kuyendetsa mbiri yake. Ndikofunika kuuza mabwenzi angapo za zinthu zosasangalatsa zomwe zimagwirizana ndi yemwe kale ankakonda, ndiyeno "mawu a pakamwa" adzachita ntchito yake.
- Amayi ambiri amasankha kuchitira nsanje ndikunyenga mabwenzi apamtima kapena anzawo omwe amadziwika nawo. Pankhaniyi, ndibwino kuti musamangosewera ndi momwe munthu wina amamvera, ngati wina angabwezere.
- Mukufuna kunyalanyaza munthu wakale wa mpumulo kwa masiku angapo, ndiye pa malonda a malonda amapanga malonda osiyanasiyana, kusonyeza nambala yake ya foni.
- Njira yabwino kwambiri komanso yabwino kwambiri yobweretsera chilango kwa anzanu akale ndikum'pweteka kuti adakutaya. Pitani ku kusintha kwakukulu, ndipo izi zikugwiranso ntchito maonekedwe ndi mkati. Khalani wokongola kwa iye, ndipo mumulole iye akulumphire zidutswa zake, kuti anaphonya daimondi yoteroyo.