Chodabwitsa, maphunziro a mwamuna, ngakhale atakhala pamapewa a amayi ake, nthawi zambiri amakhalabe mkazi wake. Pambuyo pake, ndi iye amene angapangitse munthuyo kukhala ndi makhalidwe abwino kwambiri, popanda kuti ukwati sungathe kukhala wabwino ndi wamphamvu. Ndipotu moyo umakhala chifukwa chachikulu chokhalira ndi banja.
Kodi mungakweze bwanji munthu weniweni?
Choyamba, nkofunikira kuphunzira lamulo lalikulu: ngati mayi angathe kulira mwana wamwamuna (yemwe alibe mtundu wake wonse), ndiye mwamuna wake alibe ufulu wopita ku chinthu choterocho. Asanakhale ndi bulu wonyansa wa zaka zisanu, koma munthu wamkulu yemwe ali ndi zizoloŵezi ndi khalidwe. Ndicho chifukwa chake palibe chifukwa chomwe mukuyenera kupitilira ndikufuula - ndizo, osati T-sheti yoiwalika, yomwe ingayambitse mavuto aakulu m'banja.
Chiwindi chachikulu cha kuyang'anira munthu ndicho kudzidalira kwake. Kuyambira ali mwana anaphunzitsidwa kuti ayenera kukhala mlimi, wamphamvu, wolimba mtima, amene amasankha mafunso ofunika kwambiri. Ndi kuchokera ku izi zomwe tifunika kumanga pa funso la momwe tingalerere munthu.
Kuwonjezera pamenepo, muyenera kukhala munthu yemwe mukufuna kumuyesa. Ngati mupita kunyumba mwinjiro wakale ndikudandaula nthawi zonse - sizikuwoneka kuti mwamuna wanu akufuna kukuchitirani kanthu. Koma pamene ubale uli wabwino, ndipo ndinu wokongola ndi wokonzeka bwino, chilakolako chothandizani pa chilichonse chomwe chimapanga munthu ndi chophweka.
Musaiwale kuti sizinthu zonse zomwe zingathe kusintha. Mwachitsanzo, ngati munthu mwachilengedwe amauza, simudzamukakamiza kuti azigawana nanu zonse zomwe zimamuchitikira. Ngati sakukondana - ndiye sakuganiza kuti amakukumbatirani mwachikondi mutayang'ana limodzi melodrama (ngati amavomereza kuwona). Mukhoza kusintha pang'ono zizoloŵezi za banja lake, koma kumbukirani kuti inu nokha mudzayenera kukonza. Palibe aliyense wa inu amene akuyenera kuti azigwirizana ndi wachiwiri, choncho, aliyense ayenera kusintha, chifukwa popanda izo mudzapeza zovuta kuti muzikhala pamodzi.
Kawirikawiri, amuna omwe amaleredwa ndi amayi amasiyana ndi ena kupatulapo kuti amamvetsera kwambiri kwa okwatirana awo ndi kuwathandiza kuzungulira nyumba. Simungathe kuyika munthu wogulitsa ntchito, slob mu bwino, donjuan m'banja labwino, ndi chidakwa mwa munthu wamba, ndipo mazana ambiri osasangalala omwe alowa njirayi akhoza kutsimikizira izi kwa inu. Mwamuna ayenera poyamba kukhala wabwino - woona, woona mtima, wosamwa, osati wachiwawa. Apo ayi zidzakhala zovuta kwambiri ndi iye - simungasinthe.
Maphunziro achikazi a mwamuna
Palibe anthu awiri omwe adakumanapo, anayamba kukhala pamodzi - ndipo nthawi yomweyo ankachita nawo zizoloŵezi zawo zapakhomo. Maphunziro a mwamuna weniweni, yemwe angakhale ogwirizana ndi inu, ayenera kukhala ofatsa, ofatsa ndi omaliza.
Mwachitsanzo, mumatumiza ku sitolo, ndipo imabweretsa mosasamala zomwe mukufunikira. Mwamuna wanu sakudziwa chifukwa chake mumasankha
Mavuto ambiri a m'banja amakhudzana ndi dongosolo la zinthu. Ngati mwamuna wanu akuponya zinthu zake pakhomo, ndipo simunakonzekere kuzilandira, mungathe kuzigwira ndi kuziyika pa pulogalamu ya kompyuta kapena TV - kumene iwo angasokoneze naye kuti amvetsetse.
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