Mwatsoka, amayi ambiri amavutika ndi zovuta zosiyanasiyana. Anthu ena amadziona okha osakongola, wina ali ndi chifuwa chaching'ono, wina amadziona kuti ndi mayi woipa kapena mbuye wake, ndipo wina akuganiza kuti sali wochenjera kwambiri. Momwe mungakhalire mkazi wodalirika ndikuchotsa zovutazi, ndikudzidalira nokha? Tiyeni tiyesetse kuthana ndi vutoli lovuta kwambiri ku ntchito zosiyanasiyana.
Momwe mungakhalire wodzidalira mwa mkazi?
Choyamba, yesetsani kupeza chifukwa cha kusatsimikizika kwanu. Mwinamwake iyi ndi mawu achisokonezo a amayi kapena apongozi awo, kapena mwinamwake wokalamba wakale? Kodi mawu oterowo ayeneradi kudalira, ndipo mwinamwake, pali mwayi wokhala wokongola komanso wodzidalira kwambiri? Mwinamwake, mawu achinyengo, omwe amakhudza kwambiri kudzidalira kwanu, alibe kwenikweni maziko? Tiyeni tipange mndandanda wa zonyansa zomwe zimakuchititsani. Ndipo pangani zifukwa zambiri. Kodi mumatsutsidwa ndi untidiness? Lembani zomwe mumapanga pakhomo. Kodi ndinu woyang'anira nyumba yoipa? Lembani mndandanda wa mbale zomwe mumakonda. Kodi mukuganiza kuti ndinu woipa? Pitani kwa wojambula wodzipangira ndikupanga chithunzi chododometsa chajambula.
Tsopano yang'anani maso anu ndi maganizo anu kujambulani chithunzi cha munthu wodalirika. M'mabuku ambiri apadera, psychology ya munthu yadziwululidwa bwino, kotero iwo amathandiza kuthetsa funso la momwe angakhalire wodzidalira ndi kusiya kukayikira. Kotero, mungathe kulingalira munthu wotchuka, mnzanu kapena chabe chithunzi. Fufuzani chifaniziro chake, zizindikiro zake ndi nkhope yake. Imani patsogolo pa galasilo,
Mbali ina yofunika yomwe idzafotokozera momwe mungakhalire okongola komanso nthawi yomweyo kudzidalira - musadzifanizire nokha ndi wina. Padzakhala wina yemwe adzakhala wokongola kwambiri, wochenjera, wolemera kapena wosangalala. Koma, choyamba, njira iyi siimapangitsa munthu kukhala wangwiro, ndipo, kachiwiri, timangoona kokha chigoba chakunja ndipo sitikudziwa kuti munthu aliyense ali wodala komanso wodzidalira.