Makhalidwe abwino

Kupanga chisankho, kupanga malingaliro, munthu amatsogoleredwa ndi mfundo zake za makhalidwe abwino, zopangidwa pa maziko a chidziwitso chomwe chinapindula paulendo wake wonse. Mphamvu ya mfundo imeneyi ndi chifuniro cha chikhalidwe. Kwa munthu aliyense pali chizoloƔezi cha kukhazikitsidwa kwake. Kotero, wina amadziwa kuti simungathe kupha anthu, ndipo kuti wina aphe moyo simungathe munthu, koma nyama iliyonse. Tiyenera kuzindikira kuti machitidwe amtunduwu, makhalidwe abwino, akhoza kukhala ofanana ndi maulendo osiyanasiyana.

Mfundo zamakhalidwe abwino

Sizingakhale zodabwitsa kuzindikira kuti chinthu chachikulu sichidziwa za makhalidwe abwino a munthu, koma ntchito yawo yogwira ntchito pamoyo. Kuyambira mapangidwe awo mu ubwana, ayenera kukula kukhala ochenjera, okoma mtima, ndi ena. Maziko a mapangidwe awo ndi chifuniro, maganizo, nzeru .

Ngati munthuyo akudzipereka yekha, amadziwika ndi makhalidwe abwino. Ndipo momwe iye ali wokhulupirika kwa iye, zimadalira kumatsatira kwake mfundo.

Tikakamba za mfundo zapamwamba za makhalidwe abwino ndiye kuti zikhoza kugawa m'magulu atatu:

  1. "Mungathe." Zikhulupiriro za mkati mwa munthuyo zimatsatira malamulo, malamulo a anthu onse. Kuwonjezera pamenepo, mfundo zoterezi sizingathe kuvulaza aliyense.
  2. "Ndikofunika". Kupulumutsa munthu akumira, kuchotsa thumba kwa wakuba ndikulipereka kwa mwiniwake - zonsezi zimasonyeza makhalidwe abwino omwe ali nawo mu umunthu, kumukakamiza kuchita mwanjira inayake, ngakhale kuti izi zingatsutse maganizo ake. Apo ayi, iye akhoza kulangidwa kapena kuchita izi kungapangitse mavuto ambiri.
  3. "Simungathe." Mfundo izi zimatsutsidwa ndi anthu, kuphatikizapo, zikhoza kukhala ndi udindo wotsogolera kapena wolakwa.

Makhalidwe abwino, komanso, makhalidwe aumunthu amapangidwa m'njira yonse ya moyo pochita zinthu ndi anthu ena, anthu.

Munthu wamakhalidwe apamwamba amayesa kudzifunira yekha chomwe chiri tanthawuzo cha moyo, kodi mtengo wake ndi wotani, chomwe chiyenera kukhala chikhalidwe chake ndi chiyani chimwemwe .

Pa nthawi yomweyo muchitapo chilichonse, yesetsani, mfundo iliyonse ikhoza kuonekera ndi mbali yosiyana, nthawi zina yosadziwika, mbali. Pambuyo pake, makhalidwe abwino amadziwonetsera okha osati m'chiphunzitso, koma pakuchita, mu ntchito yake.

Makhalidwe abwino olankhulana

Izi zikuphatikizapo:

  1. Kusamala kusayidwa kwa zofuna zaumwini chifukwa cha zofuna za anthu ena.
  2. Kukana ku hedonism, zosangalatsa za moyo, chisangalalo chofuna kupindula kwabwino chomwe chili patsogolo pawokha.
  3. Kuthetsa mavuto aumphawi a zovuta zonse ndikugonjetsa zovuta.
  4. Kuwonetsa udindo wa kusamalira umunthu wina.
  5. Kumanga ubale ndi ena mwachifundo ndi zabwino.

Kupanda makhalidwe abwino

Asayansi ku yunivesite ya California posachedwapa adatsimikizira kuti kutsatira Makhalidwe abwino amasonyeza kuti anthu oterewa sagwidwa ndi zovuta zowonongeka tsiku ndi tsiku, ndiko kuti, amasonyeza kuti iwo akutsutsa matenda osiyanasiyana, matenda

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Aliyense amene sasokonezeka kuti adzike yekha, yemwe ndi wachiwerewere, posachedwa kapena mtsogolo, koma amayamba kuvutika ndi zochepa zake. Mkati mwa munthu wotero mumakhala ndi maganizo olakwika ndi anu "I". Izi, kuphatikizapo, zimayambitsa kuwuka kwa maganizo, zomwe zimayambitsa momwe maonekedwe a matenda osiyanasiyana amaonekera.