Kodi mungaphunzitse bwanji mwana kuti adziyimire yekha?
Makolo ayenera kufufuza mosamala mkhalidwewo kuti athe kupeza zolondola. Funso la momwe angaphunzitsire ana ndi achinyamata kuti azidziimira okha lingakhudze osati anyamata okha, komanso atsikana. Nazi mfundo zina zofunika:
- ndikofunikira kudziwa ngati mwanayo ndi amene amachititsa kuti asamvana;
- Ngati mwanayo akukhumudwitsidwa kusukulu kapena sukulu, ndi bwino kudziwitsa mphunzitsi, mphunzitsiyo, ngati ali ndi mwayi wotsutsana ndi vutoli;
- Ngati vuto likubwerezabwereza, ndibwino kuganizira za kusamukira ku bungwe lina;
- Ndikofunika kukulitsa chidaliro cha mwana mwa iyemwini, kumutamanda iye nthawi zambiri, kumuuza iye yemwe ali wamkulu;
- ngati mwanayo sakufuna kusintha, ndi bwino kuphunzitsa kuti amuuze wolakwirayo kuti sakonda zomwe akuchita ndipo akukhumudwitsa;
- Mungathe kuganiza pamodzi ndi mwanayo, momwe amadzipezera yekha ku ziwonongeko;
- Nthawi zina ana amaopa kudziyimira okha, koma nthawi zina amapitilira wina (mchimwene wamng'ono, mlongo, msodzi wodziwika, watsopano m'kalasi), pakapita nthawi, chidaliro chidzawonjezeka ndipo mantha adzatha;
- masewera, masewera a nkhondo amathandizanso.
Ngati tikukamba za mwana wamng'ono, mayi akhoza kukopa ana ambiri okonda masewerawo, zomwe zidzakakamiza omvera kuti azitsatira malamulo onse.
Kodi sitingathe kuchita chiyani?
Amene akufunikira kumvetsetsa momwe angaphunzitsire mwana kapena mwana wamkazi kuti adziyimire yekha, m'pofunika kumvetsetsa zolakwa zomwe ayenera kuzipewa. Makolo nthawi zina amaonetsetsa kuti mkanganowo ndi wovuta kwambiri ndipo amadzipangitsa okha. Ngati mwanayo sakugwirizana kwambiri ndi vutoli, ndiye kuti sizingakhale bwino kuti tiganizirepo.
Musamangodandaula ndi mwanayo, ndikugogomezera momwe ana ena amamukhumudwira. Izi zingachititse ma complexes ndi zosatetezeka. Pa chifukwa chomwecho, palibe chifukwa chodzudzula chifukwa cholephera kupereka kusintha, kuyitcha "rag", "sly".