Mu Chingerezi, mawu akuti "kuwonetseratu makhalidwe" pali analogue, lomwe limamasuliridwa kuti "kufufuza moyo." Izi ndizoona: Makhalidwe abwino a munthu amasankha zochita pamoyo wake, ntchito zake ndi chilengedwe.
Kusanthula miyezo ya moyo sikophweka, ndipo panthawi imodzimodziyo ndi ntchito yabwino. Ngati mukumva kuti ndi nthawi yoti muime ndi kukonzanso mfundo za moyo wanu, malangizo awa akuthandizani.
Pumulani
Choyamba, dziperekeni kukhala "osakayikira". Ngati malamulo akale sakugwiranso ntchito ndipo pali cholakwika ndi iwo, ndizosavuta - kutengeka, kulingalira ndi kuyanjananso.
Mwachidziwitso, mwa njira, pitani ku mapiri kapena ku nyanja kuti muganizire za inu nokha, zam'mbuyo ndi zam'tsogolo. Ngati izi sizingatheke, pitirizani kuchita ntchito zanu za tsiku ndi tsiku, koma mutisiye nokha malo ndi nthawi yosinkhasinkha. Munthu, atatopa mwakuthupi ndi mwamakhalidwe, sangathe kupanga zosankha zomveka.
Apa ndi Tsopano
Vuto loyambiranso zonse za uzimu ndi zakuthupi ndizomwe mungathe kugawira njira ndi njira. Anthu ambiri amachitcha "kubwereza" kuyesa kusintha pang'ono kayendedwe ka moyo kapena kutaya chinachake kuchokera mmenemo chomwe chimasokoneza. Nthawi zonse ganizirani zomwe mukufuna, komanso chifukwa chake ndi chifukwa chiyani mukuchifunira. Kodi muyenera kukhala ndi moyo wotani mukatha kukwaniritsa chikhumbo chimenechi ?
Poganizira zomwe mukuwona moyo wanu wam'tsogolo, dzifunseni mafunso angapo otsogolera. Kodi mumafuna kukhala mwana ngati chiyani? Kodi malotowo ndi enieni tsopano? Kodi mumayamikira chiyani ndipo mukufuna bwanji kuona malo oyandikana nawo? Kodi mphamvu zanu ndi ziti? Ndipo funso lofunika kwambiri - kodi zofooka zanu ndi ziti, ndipo zingagwiritsidwe ntchito bwanji kuti mukhale ndi moyo wabwino?
Mayankho onse awa potsiriza adzasinthidwa kukhala amodzi, ndipo ofunika kwambiri: nchifukwa ninji mukukhala konse?