Chikondi ndi chifundo ndizo lingaliro lomwelo, mwachidziwitso chachikulu komanso chophweka, motsatira. Chikondi chimatanthawuza mtima wachikondi kwa ofooka ndi ovutika, kufunitsitsa kumvetsetsa ndi kukhululukira. Ndipo chifundo ndi kuthekera kumvetsetsa munthu, kuthekera kumverera ululu wa wina ndikuwoneka ngati wake komanso popanda kukayikira kuthandiza.
Kodi pali kusiyana kotani pakati pachisomo ndi chifundo?
Ndikofunika kukhazikitsa lingaliro lachisoni ndi chifundo. Monga momwe tawonetsera kale, chifundo ndi kumveka kwakukulu kumverera mofanana ndi munthu, kufotokozera zakukhosi kwake ndi kuyesetsa kumuthandiza. Chifundo ndikumverera, ndipo nthawi zambiri chimasonyeza chikhumbo chosafuna kukhala m'malo mwa munthu wotere. Kuwonjezera pamenepo, chisoni ndikumangokhalira kumverera mofulumira kumene sikupangitsa chikhumbo chochita chinachake kwa munthu, kumuthandiza, mosiyana ndi chifundo.
Vuto la chifundo ndi chifundo
Chiwonetsero cha chifundo ndi chimodzi mwa zofunikira za malingaliro achi Russia. Ndipo ngakhale kuti anthu ambiri amachitira chifundo ndi chifundo, pakadali pano zochitikazi zimakhala ndi tanthauzo latsopano: makamaka nthawi zambiri zimakhala zomvetsa chisoni ndi iwo omwe adzibweretsera okha osasangalala (zidakwa, osokoneza bongo, etc.). Ndipo kusiya munthu pa mphindi yotere ndikuchita ngati mwambi "palibe manyazi kapena chifundo."
Zitsanzo ziwirizi za chifundo zomwe timaziwona m'mabanja a zidakwa ndi osokoneza bongo. M'malo motetezera ana ndi iwo okha ku chitsanzo choipa chotero, amai akupitirizabe kukhala ndi munthu wosokonezeka, wogonjetsedwa ndi chifundo ndi kuganiza kuti: "Angakhale bwanji popanda ine?". Choncho, chikondi chimakhala chovulaza, chifukwa kudalira kumathandizidwa, ndipo moyo wa amayi, womwe ukhoza kukhala wamba, ukutsutsidwa. Kumbali imodzi, chinthu choterocho chimawoneka bwino mu chikhalidwe chathu, chifukwa ichi ndi chiwonetsero cha chifundo ndi chifundo. Mbali inayi, izo zimapandukira munthu yemwe amadzipereka yekha ndi chimwemwe chake. Kuphatikizanso apo, izi sizikuyamikiridwa kawirikawiri.
Ndichifukwa chake maphunziro a chifundo mwa ana ndi awiri. Ndipotu, pambali imodzi, mwanayo amamatira pachikhalidwe chachikhristu, sipadzakhala nkhanza komanso osayanjanitsika. Koma mbali ina, timaphunzitsa munthu wamng'ono kuti azikhala ndi vuto, ndikuganiza kuti zofuna za anthu ena zingakhale zofunikira kuposa zawo, zomwe zingakhale zosokoneza moyo.
N'zochititsa chidwi kuti chifundo ndi chifundo kwa anthu zimapangidwa mwa chikhalidwe cha amai - mwa amuna amakhalabe opanda chidziwitso, chifukwa theka la anthu labwino limaphunzira kubisa maganizo ndi maganizo kuyambira ali mwana.
Ndikofunika kukonza mfundo za chikondi ndi chifundo. Ndipotu, chifundo, si chikondi kwa anthu, koma maonekedwe ake. Ndipotu, sikoyenera kukonda wina yemwe ali wachifundo. Mwamtheradi munthu aliyense wokhwima mwauzimu sangachite chidwi ndi zovuta za wina. Akatswiri a zaumulungu amanena kuti omwe ali otsika
Kodi chifundo ndi chifundo ndi ziti?
Zinthu izi siziyenera kuwonetsedwa nthawi zonse, chifukwa izi zingawononge moyo wanu. Ngati munthu ali ndi chisoni chachikulu, ndipo sangathe kuchira, amafunikiradi chifundo. Ngati munthu atha kulankhulana naye, mukhoza kumuthandiza - osachepera.
Komabe, ngati munthu wayambitsa mavuto ndipo akhoza kumuthandiza kuti asokoneze moyo wanu, muyenera kumusamala kwambiri: chifundo ndi chifundo zimakhala zomveka, koma zingathandize komanso kuvulaza.