Kumvetsetsa mwachifundo kumaphatikizapo kumvetsa chisoni, kumvetsetsa komanso kumvetsetsa. Chifundo ndikumvetsetsa za uzimu wa interlocutor, zomwe amasonyeza poyankhula . Pali njira zambirimbiri zothandizira kumvetsetsa chifundo. Kumvera chisoni kumalankhulana kumapindulitsa kwambiri inu ndi othandizana nawo, choncho timapereka mwayi wophunzira njira zomwe zimamvetsera mwachidwi.
Njira zakumvetsera mwachifundo
Kuwonetserana chifundo kumakhala kofunikira kuti wogwirizanitsa alankhule bwino. Mudzatha kusonyeza kuti mumamvetsera komanso kumvetsetsa zomwe akuganiza. Tapeza njira zisanu ndi zitatu zakumvetsera mwachifundo, tikukulimbikitsani kuti mudzidziwe bwino.
- Kugwiritsa ntchito ndi kuvomerezana ndi zokambirana za interlocutor. Muyenera kulankhulana ndi maso anu, komanso kugwedeza mutu wanu mu chiganizo cha mawu a mnzako. Mukhoza kufotokozera mfundo zing'onozing'ono m'maganizo ake, mwachitsanzo: "Eya, inde, ndikugwirizana ndi inu, ndikukondwera kwambiri."
- Mafunso ofotokozera. Ngati nthawi zina zikuwoneka zosamvetsetseka kapena zosamvetsetseka kwa inu, musazengereze kufotokoza ndi interlocutor wanu zomwe zimakuvutitsani. Mungamufunse mafunso monga: "Kodi mungandifotokozereni?", "Bwerezani, chonde", "mukutanthauza chiyani?".
- Kubwereza. Ngati mutabwereza mawu a interlocutor, mungakuthandizeni kukonzekera nokha, ndipo mudzasonyeza kuti ndinu omvera.
- Sungani. Yesetsani kubwereza zomwe interlocutor akunena m'mawu ake omwe: "Ndinamvetsa bwino kuti", "mwachitsanzo," "mukuganiza kuti", "mukhoza kukhulupirira," "zikutanthauza kuti" "mungavomereze kuti."
- Pangani ndi kupitiliza maganizo a wogwirizanitsa. Yesetsani kudziwa tanthauzo lenileni la mawu ake, powerenga mawu omveka bwino a mawu ake mokweza.
- Yesetsani kulankhulana ndi womulankhulana wanu ndikufotokozerani momwe mumamvetsetsera malingaliro ake. Izi zikhoza kuchitika pogwiritsa ntchito mawu awa:
"Ndikumvetsa zomwe mukukumva pakalipano," "Ndikumva kuti", "mumakhudzidwa kwambiri ndi izi", "mwina mukuda nkhaŵa". - Lirani chisoni ndipo yesetsani kumphonya maganizo a womulankhulana kudzera mwa inu nokha. Mungathe kufotokoza izi ndi mawu monga: "Ndikukumverani mwangwiro," "monga inu, ndikukhulupirira kuti," "m'malo mwanu, ndikanakhala ndi maganizo omwewo," "Ndikumvetsa zomwe mumamva ".
- Tchulani zotsatira za zokambirana zanu. Pamapeto pa zokambirana, yesani kupanga chidule cha mfundo zazikulu za pamwambazi. Gwiritsani ntchito mawu akuti: "Tinafika pamapeto akuti", "Ndingathe kunena zomwe zimachitika," "ngati mutagwirizanitsa zonse zomwe munanena, zikutanthauza kuti", "mwachidule, munanena zimenezo."