Tonsefe timayenera kupanga chisankho pamoyo nthawi zonse, nthawizina tiyenera kuchita izo maminiti angapo. Mwachitsanzo, kugula diresi kapena bulasi ndi thalauza, pitani ku masewera olimbitsa thupi kapena pa tsiku, lembani lipoti kapena muwone bwino? Pali kusankha ndi kovuta kwambiri, kukonzeratu moyo wina - kusankha mwamuna, malo ogwira ntchito , malo opumula. Mu moyo, chirichonse chiri chosavuta, ndipo nthawi zambiri timatayika, timayika, osadziwa momwe tingasankhire bwino.
Ambiri aife tikusankha njira zosiyana siyana - amayesera kuona "zizindikiro za tsogolo", kutembenukira ku chithandizo kwa makadi, kulengeza , koma osadziwa momwe angasankhire. Mwamwayi, mu psychology, pali njira zenizeni zomwe zimathandiza kupanga zisankho zolondola.
Kodi mungasankhe bwanji?
- Yesani kulingalira momwe mungasinthire moyo wanu wamtsogolo ndi zosankha zanu zonse, kuyembekezera zaka zingapo kapena makumi khumi. Fotokozani zofunika kwambiri za tsogolo lanu, ndipo sankhani zomwe zidzakutsogolereni kwa iwo. Kodi chisankho chanu chidzakupatsani kutali ndi maloto okondedwa, kuchokera ku chiyani chomwe chili chofunika kwambiri kwa inu m'moyo?
- Gwiritsani ntchito njira yakale, yoyesedwa ndi yoyesedwa: tengani chidutswa cha pepala ndikulembera pambali phindu ndi kupweteka kwa njira iliyonse, kenaka fufuzani chinthu chilichonse ponena za kufunikira kwa inu, pa mlingo wa mfundo khumi. Werengani zotsatira ndi kusankha.
- Nthawi zina mumangofunika kudzifunsa nokha - kodi n'zotheka kupeĊµa kusankha zinthu ziwiri pakali pano? Ngati mukuwopsya komanso mukudandaula, izi zikhoza kukhala chizindikiro kuti palibe njira zomwe mungasankhe.
- Atsikana, kuti asankhe bwino, nthawi zina amakonda kucheza ndi abwenzi ndi achibale. Sankhani kuchokera kumalo anu asanu anthu. Iwo ayenera kukhala anthu anzeru, omwe mumawalemekeza, omwe mumakhulupirira. Inde, iwo sayenera kukhala nawo mbali mu nkhaniyi mwanjira iliyonse. Fotokozani zomwe zimawachitikira, funsani malangizo.
Zomwe zimabwera pambuyo pochita chisankho cholondola:
- muli otsimikiza kotheratu kuti zosankha zomwe mumapanga m'tsogolomu zidzabweretsa phindu, phindu ndi chimwemwe;
- ngakhale ngati zili zovuta kwa inu, mphamvuzo zidzabwerera pang'onopang'ono, ndipo mudzakhala bata ndi mtendere wa m'maganizo.
Ngati mutapanga chisankho cholakwika, mudzakhala ndi chikhumbo chofuna kubwerera, ndipo alamu idzawonjezeka. Ndipo kumbukirani - simungathe kukonza zolakwitsa zammbuyo, mumangoyenda panjira yolondola tsopano, panthawiyi. Chinthu chachikulu ndicho kusankha bwino lero.