Zimakhala kuti mumudziwe bwino munthu, maonekedwe ake sali oonekera, koma amakopeka ndi iye yekha moti amafuna kulankhula naye mobwerezabwereza. Anthu oterewa ali ndi mphatso yapadera kuti athandize anthu oyandikana nawo chifundo. Chodabwitsa ichi sichikutcha china koma chikoka cha munthu aliyense.
Lingaliro lachisangalalo limasuliridwa kuchokera ku Chigriki, monga "chisomo choperekedwa ndi Mulungu," chizindikiro chotero cha osankhidwa. Ndicho chifukwa chake ndizosangalatsa, ngati n'zotheka kukhala ndi chisangalalo ndipo ngati ziri choncho, mungachite bwanji. Ena amakhulupirira kuti khalidwe ili ndi lopanda moyo, ndipo n'zosatheka kukhala nalo mu moyo. Komabe, palinso kuthandizira kuti aliyense ali ndi chiyambi chachisomo, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti chitukuko cha charisma ndizochita masewera olimbitsa thupi, ngakhale kuti si zosavuta, koma zenizeni.
Tiyeni tipite ku bizinesi!
Chikondwererochi chidzathandizidwa ndi zoterezi:
- Dzikondeni nokha ndikudzidalira nokha, khulupirirani nokha. Koma pochita izi, yang'anani mzere pakati pa kudzikonda ndi kudzikonda.
- Khalani okondana, nthawi zambiri kumapita ku kuwala, kuphunzitsa luso lanu lolankhulana, musamawope kudziwana ndi anthu atsopano.
- Tsatirani moyo wokhutira, nthawizonse muzichita chinachake, chifukwa nthawizonse zimakhala zosavuta kuti munthu wachidwi akwaniritse zokambirana, ndi zosangalatsa kwa ena.
- Pezani moyo wokhala ndi chiyembekezo, khalani m'mawa mwachisangalalo, mukondwere ndi tsiku lomwe mwakhalamo, kondwerani nthawi zambiri.
- Lemekezani anthu omwe akuzungulirani, phunzirani osati kumvetsera kokha, komanso kuti muwamve. Funsani mafunso okhudza oyankhulana, onetsani chidwi ndi umunthu wake.
- Yang'anirani njira yanu yolankhulirana, yochepa kwambiri, kuyenda moyenda bwino.
- Charisma ya liwu ndilo gawo lofunikira la chinsinsi cha chisangalalo. Fotokozani malingaliro anu, musazengereze, momveka bwino, koma momveka bwino kuti mufune kumvetsera ndi kumva zomwe mukuzinena.
Kodi munthu wachikulire amawoneka bwanji?
Kuti tidziwe mosavuta mnyamata wachifundo mwachinyama, ndikofunikira kumvetsetsa zomwe zimapangidwa ndi amuna a charisma. Chonde dziwani kuti munthu uyu:
- Thandizo lokha pakuthana ndi mavuto aliwonse sapempha thandizo kwa ena.
- Galantine, wolemekezeka, amayang'ana m'maso, samadziwika ndi khalidwe loipa, khalidwe lokhwima ndi manja okhwima.
- Nthaŵi zambiri, amasankha zovala zakuda. Ngati muvala tayi, ndiye mukakambirana, amakoka. Ngati mulibe tayi, ndiye tsambani chitsamba.
- Amapita kukagona kwambiri, koma amadzuka m'mawa kwambiri. Zimayambitsa moyo wathanzi komanso wathanzi.
Anthu omwe ali ndi chisangalalo, ali ndi mphamvu pa ena. Ichi ndi choyimira cha mtsogoleri, chimathandiza, ponse pa ntchito komanso pa moyo waumwini, kotero musanyalanyaze chitukuko chake ndipo izi zidzakuthandizani kuti mukwaniritse bwino mu gawo lililonse.