Mwa anthu, kumverera kwa umwini nthawi zambiri kumatchedwa nsanje yaikulu . Monga lamulo, munthu amene amachitira izi, amakumana ndi zowawa ndi wina aliyense yemwe si mwamuna kapena mkazi wake, samalola pamene chidwi cha chikondi chimafikira munthu wina osati iye mwini.
Nsanje ndi umwini wake
Si chinsinsi kuti lingaliro la umwini muzoyanjana silinapangitse wina kukhala wosangalala. Monga lamulo, chifukwa cha iye, iye mwini ali ndi nsanje, ndi chifukwa cha nsanje yake. Nsanje ikhoza kukhala amuna ndi akazi ndipo izi zikuwonekera nthawi zambiri zimakhala chimodzimodzi:
- Wachisoni wokonda nsanje amayesetsa kuthetsa kuyankhulana kwa wokondedwa pa foni komanso pa malo ochezera a pa Intaneti;
- nsanje nthawi zonse kuyesera kupeza akaunti ya komwe ndi theka lake ili;
- munthu wansanje amaletsa kuyankhulana ndi abwenzi onse a amuna kapena akazi okhaokha;
- munthu yemwe ali wokhudzidwa ndi nsanje, kawirikawiri amatulutsa ziphuphu kumayambiriro kapena amakonza "kufufuza".
Anthu ena amalekerera mosavuta kukhalapo kwa nsanje pafupi ndi iwo okha, ena amatha kukhala okhumudwitsa kwambiri. Sikuti munthu aliyense amatha kupirira maganizo amenewa.
Kodi mungachotse bwanji umwini wa umwini?
Nsanje ndi umwini wa umwini ndizothandiza pakukonza. Izi zimafuna njira zambiri:
- kuchita masewera, kuwoneka, kudzidalira nokha , kudziwa - anthu onga inu adzasamalira aliyense;
- Vomerezana ndi mnzanu yemwe simukupusitsana wina, ndipo ngati wina atha kukondana ndi wina, ndiye kuzindikira kukuyenera kumutsata;
- Fotokozerani mnzanuyo mbaliyi ndikukufunsani kuti muthandize - ganizirani mawu omwe mukufuna kunena ngati muli "osungidwa".
Choposa zonse, ndi funso la kupambana pa umwini wa umwini, pita kwa mphunzitsi wabwino yemwe angapeze njira yomwe ikukuyenererani kwa magawo angapo.