Munthu aliyense akhoza kukhala ndi chikhumbo chosintha kale. Mwinamwake, ngati zochitika zina zinali zosiyana, kapena ngati tinali pamsewu wa chisankho, tikanapanga chisankho chosiyana, ndiye kuti moyo unali wosiyana kwambiri.
Kodi ndingasinthe zakale?
Tikufuna kusintha zochitika zina, kapena zochitika zomwe zabweretsa ululu. N'zovuta kuzindikira kuti zakale sizingasinthe. Pali lingaliro la kusowa mphamvu, koma sikuti onse alibe chiyembekezo. Zodabwitsa ndi zachilendo zikhoza kumveka, koma zakale zimatigonjera.
Kodi mungasinthe bwanji kale?
Ndikofunika kusintha maganizo anu ku zochitika zomwe zinachitika kale. Zochitika izi zidzakhala ndi tanthauzo losiyana, ndipo, motero, zotsatira za zochitikazi pa ife zidzasintha. Momwemonso, izi ndi zomwe tikufuna kusintha zakale, chifukwa kukumbukira kolemetsa nthawi zambiri kumatiteteza kuti tisakhale ndi moyo.
Pali njira yomwe mungasinthire zakale kuti muchepetse ululu, kuthetsa chisoni ndi chisoni, komanso kuchepetsa mavuto. Ndikofunika kusintha maganizo pa zomwe zachitika kale. Inde, zochitika sizidzatha m'mbuyomo, koma zikhoza kusinthidwa kukhala zenizeni kuchokera ku moyo omwe poyamba, koma zomwe sizidzakhalanso zowawa komanso zopweteka.
Ndikofunika kumvetsetsa kuti sitikudziwa mmene moyo ungakhalire, ngati sipanachitikepo chochitika chomwe tikufuna kusintha m'njira iliyonse. Mwina ndizochitika zina zomwe zimatiphunzitsa, kapena zimapereka chisonkhezero ku chitukuko , kukhala phunziro lamoyo weniweni. Chirichonse chomwe chikutichitikira chiri ndi tanthauzo lothandiza, ndipo nthawi yokhayo idzawathandiza kuzizindikira izo. N'zosadabwitsa kuti akunena kuti: "Sipadzakhala chimwemwe, koma tsoka linathandiza."
Kuti mumvetsetse nokha ndikusintha maganizo anu akale, ndipo, potero, mutha kukwanitsa, ngati mutamasula, chifukwa amadziwika kuti amene amakhala kale sangakhale ndi moyo wamuyaya.