Chikhumbo chokondweretsa wokondedwa chimatipangitsa ife kuyang'ana chinachake chatsopano, chimatilimbikitsa ife kumvetsa chirichonse chokhudza kugonana. Nthawi zina, ambiri amakhala ndi funso: "Kodi mungagone bwanji kugonana komanso momwe mungaphunzirire chikondi?" Lero tikambirana nkhaniyi mwatsatanetsatane.
Nthawi yoyamba
Choyamba chokhudzana ndi kugonana ndi chofunikira kwambiri kuti mukhale ndi moyo wapamtima. Ichi ndi chithunzi chodziwika bwino, pamene msungwana akomana ndi mwamuna, pakati pawo "akumangirira" maganizo ake, maubwenzi amamangiriridwa ndipo ali ndi iye amene akuganiza kuti asatayika. Pamene msungwana akuphunzira kugonana ndi komwe angayambe - ili ndi funso, yankho limene akufuna.
Musanayambe kugonana kwa nthawi yoyamba, muyenera kudzikonzekeretsa.
- chotsani zovuta. Kuti muzisangalala ndi chibwenzi, muyenera kumasuka, musiye maganizo ndi mavuto ena. Ngati mukudandaula za chifuwa chaching'ono kapena chiuno, kapena mukudandaula za zolakwa zina zomwe mumawoneka, ndiye kuti mudzamenyedwa ndi kulimbika. Zotsatira zake, zidzakhala zovuta kusangalala ndi ndondomekoyi. Landirani ndi kudzikonda nokha kuti ndinu ndani. Mwamuna wanu sawona zolephera zanu, chifukwa iye sakhalapo. Mulimonsemo, mutha kugwira ntchito pachithunzi chanu. Kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi kunyumba kapena masewera olimbitsa thupi sikunathetsedwe;
- timapeza zatsopano. Kuti muphunzire zomwe zimachitika pakati pa amai ndi abambo, kuti mudziwe kumene zigawo zolakwika za thupi zilipo, kuti muzitha kuwerenga mabuku ndi kugonana - kuzindikira kwanu kudzapindulitsa "chifukwa";
- dzidzieni tokha. Nthawi zina mungauze mnzanuyo momwe mungakonde. Sungani madzi osamba, onjezerani thovu lamoto ndikuphunzira thupi lanu. Dzichepetseni, lembani malo okondweretsa kwambiri, kumbukirani kusuntha ndi zonse zomwe zimakusangalatsani. Musakhale wamanyazi ndi mantha pang'ono;
- Timakonza kanema wa kanema. Za mafilimu ogonana kwambiri. Zina mwa izo ziri zochititsa manyazi zowononga zolaula, komanso zowoneka bwino komanso zokongola. Ndipotu, m'nthawi yoyamba ndi yachiwiri, mungapeze "njira zothandiza." Ochita masewera olimbitsa thupi angaphunzire momwe angasunthire bwino pa kugonana, amachita izo mwaluso. Kuthamanga kwabwino kumbuyo, kusinthasintha kwa ntchafu ndi kugwidwa kwakukulu - ndi bwino kuwona kamodzi.
Malangizo ngati amenewa ndi othandizira kudziwa momwe mungaphunzirire kugonana, chitani "bwino komanso mwakhama."
Simukudziwa
Moyo wapamtima uyenera kukhala wosangalatsa komanso wosiyana. Izi sizokhudzana ndi kusintha kosasintha kwa okondedwa, koma kufunafuna malingaliro atsopano kuti mupeze zosangalatsa. Zachiwerewere zachikazi, ndithudi, zimaperekedwa kwambiri. Komabe, pali amuna ochepa amene angakane kugonana kapena kumalankhula. Momwe mungaphunzire njira ya blowjob ganizirani motsatira.
Pali njira zambiri zomwe mungathe kuziphunzira mosavuta. Kulandiridwa "tickling" ndilophweka, koma, komabe, chimodzi mwa zokondweretsa kwambiri. Sungunulani pang'onopang'ono phokoso ndi m'kati mwa ntchafu ndi dzanja lanu, winayo atenge mbolo, ndi kuigwira pansi, pang'onopang'ono mofulumizitsa nsonga ya lilime. Yambani kuchokera pamwamba pa mutu, mabowo ake, molimba mtima "mutenge" lilime lonse pa membalayo. Kungomangirira chikwama cha mbolo ya mnzanuyo.
Mukhozanso kuyesa njira "yopotoza". Ndikofunika kusunga mutu wa mbolo m'kamwa, nthawi zonse kusuntha lilime, kupanga kayendetsedwe ka kayendetsedwe kapena kayendedwe ka mmwamba ndi pansi pa thunthu la mbolo.
Mwachidziwikiratu, malo osokonezeka pakati pa makoswe ndi anus a munthu wokondweretsa mokwanira akhoza kuyambitsa chiwonongeko chodziimira kwathunthu. Mukhoza kuyesa lilime ndikunyengerera ndila zala zanu.
Kugonana kwa abambo, ndiye chinthu chofunika kwambiri ndi kusankha malo abwino kwambiri, mafuta abwino (ogulitsidwa m'masitolo ndi "masitolo akuluakulu") ndikuyamba ndi kulowa pang'onopang'ono. Funsani mwamuna wanu kuti asonyeze kuleza mtima, kusamala ndi kusunga ukhondo wochuluka. Sizitha kugwiritsira ntchito kondomu ya ana.
Kondanani wina ndi mzake ndi kusonyeza kukhudzika ndi malingaliro.