Ngati amuna adaganiza zokhudzana ndi kugonana, zikanakhala zolimba kwambiri ndi okondedwa awo. Monga mukudziwira, malingaliro a amayi ali ndi malire, kotero nthawi zina amachita manyazi ndi zikhumbo zawo zobisika.
Ambiri amawonekedwe achikazi
Kuganizira za kugonana ndi mbali ya moyo. Zithunzi zozizwitsa ndizo zonse, ndiwe wokongola ndi wachigololo, uli ndi ambiri okondwa ndipo suopa kuwopsyeza anthu. Ngati simukudzidzidziza nokha mudziko lolingalira, ndipo mumangokhalira "zokometsera" za moyo wanu wa kugonana, izi zidzakupangitsani kukhala olimba mtima, okongola kwa amuna (chifukwa cha pheromones) ndipo, motero, osangalala.
Pakati pa malingaliro achiwerewere ogonana ambiri, kugonana kovuta kumawatsogolera kumene mlendo wamphamvu. Zithunzi zomwe zimakhala ndi ng'anjo kapena ziboliboli zimalowa m'nyumba nthawi zambiri zimaganizira achinyamata, nthawi zambiri - anamwali. Kawirikawiri, oposa theka la amai mu malingaliro amakonda kusamvera, osati kulamulira.
Wina amene nthawi zambiri amakumana ndi zozizwitsa zachikazi ndi kugonana kwa magulu. Zithunzi ndi gulu la anyamata okongola amaliseche nthawi zambiri amaimira amayi omwe ali ndi zaka pafupifupi 40. Chifukwa cha malingaliro oterowo ndikuti m'zaka zapitazi amai amafika pachimake cha kugonana kwawo ndipo amafunikira okhutira ndi osakwatirana omwe ali ndi zibwenzi.
Mu malingaliro ake, mkazi akhoza kudziwona yekha ngati hule. Pa udindo wotero, mkazi alibe mphamvu ndipo izi ndi zosangalatsa kwambiri. Amayimira momwe mwamuna amamugwiritsira ntchito ndalama kuti achite zomwe ali nazo pamoyo weniweni. Osati nthawi zonse, koma kawirikawiri malingaliro oterowo amachokera chimodzimodzi kuchokera kwa amayi omwe ali pachigono chenicheni amakhala osamala kwambiri.
Masewera achikazi okonda kuganiza
Kodi amai amaimira anthu otani mu kugonana kwawo? Kawirikawiri - awa ndi amuna amodzi omwe amamveka zizindikiro za kugonana kwawo: mbuzi, zazikulu, ndi zidutswa pamaso ndi membala wodabwitsa.
Kawirikawiri amai amaganiza za omwe amadziwa - anzako, amodzi, anthu otchuka. Ndipo mwinamwake wokondedwa wanu wolimba kwambiri akulota mwachinsinsi momwe mumagwiritsira ntchito mwadzidzidzi patebulo, pakati pa makina ndi kompyuta.
Chifukwa cha chidwi chazimayi, heroine wa malingaliro okhudzana ndi chiwerewere akhoza kukhala chibwenzi kapena mlendo wokongola. Chikhumbo chogonana chotere sichikutanthauza kuti mkazi sakonda amuna. Mwachidule panthawi yomwe akulota mwachifundo, zosangalatsa zosavuta komanso zosangalatsa zachilendo.