Inde, funso la momwe mungamumenyere mnzanu kuchokera kwa bwenzi ndizokwanira. Chinthu chotero, makamaka pakati pa "maphwando okhudzidwa" adzakhumudwitsa komanso kukwiya. Kumbali ina - munthu aliyense kamodzi kamodzi pamoyo wake anamva kuti kulimbana ndi chimwemwe chake si kophweka.
Momwe mungamumenyere mnyamata wina?
Ngakhale kuchita kosafunika koteroko kumafuna kukonzekera bwino. Kumbukirani kuti anthu, poyamba, ayang'ana maonekedwe a mayiyo. Kujambula tsitsi, manja ndi mapazi okonzedwa bwino, thupi lokongola lolimba - zonsezi mu zovuta zimapanga chithunzi chokongola. Munthu aliyense adzayang'ana maonekedwe osamveka.
Inde, munthu sayenera kuiwala za uzimu ndi kudzikuza. Chovala chokongola chimangoyamba kokha koyamba, koma muyenera kuyankhula, makamaka ndi abambo omwe si amuna kapena akazi okhaokha.
Momwe mungamuthandizire mnyamata kuchokera kwa bwenzi lapamtima?
Poyambira ndi kofunika kupenda mosamala, kodi mwakonzeka kusinthanitsa ubwenzi wanu ndi chibwenzi chanu pachibwenzi chomwe sichikhoza kutha. Ngati mtsikanayo adaganiza kuti masewerawa ndi ofunikira kandulo komanso munthu amene mumamukonda, ndibwino kuti mumenyane, tikupempha zotsatirazi.
- Kuwonekera mwadzidzidzi kumalo kumene chinthu chosankhidwa chiri. Musamupitirire ndi kumuvutitsa. Maonekedwewo ayenera kukhala okongola komanso othandiza. Ngati mwamunayo ali pachibwenzi ndi bwenzi lanu, mutha kukhala ndi chifukwa chokhalira ndikukumana nawo pa nthawi ya msonkhano wawo.
- Tiyenera kuyang'anira ubale wawo. Ndipo talingalirani. Tawonani momwe amalankhulirana, momwe amachitira akamakangana.
- Potsiriza, chimodzi mwa magawo akulu, momwe mungamumenyere mnyamata kuchokera kwa mpikisano. Kuti muchite izi, yesetsani kukhala bwenzi lake. Kodi mungachite bwanji zimenezi? Pali zambiri zomwe mungachite. Choyamba, ndikofunika kuphunzira za zofuna ndi zosangalatsa za mnyamata, pokonzekera zokambirana pa mutu uwu komanso chofunika kwambiri ndi kusonyeza chidwi, kuwona, ku maphunzirowa. Mwamuna aliyense amakonda kufunsidwa mosaganizira za zosangalatsa , zochita ndi zokondweretsa .
Musanayambe kuchita zoterezo, ganizirani mosamala kuti mungachite chiyani. Pambuyo pake, khalidwe ili ndilo kulemekeza, poyamba, nokha.