Chikondi ndi kulingalira bwino sizingagwirizanane, koma nthawi zina malingaliro amadziwa kuti ayenera kuyiwala munthu yemwe samamubwezera, koma momwe angachitire - sakudziwa. Zimene mungachite kuti muiŵale munthu amene mumamukonda, akatswiri a maganizo angayende.
Kodi mungaiwale bwanji munthu amene mumamukonda kwambiri?
Ngakhale kuti amalephera kubwereza, amai nthawi zambiri "amamatira" munthu wokonda kwambiri chifukwa cha kulimbika mtima, koma chifukwa cha mantha a kusungulumwa ndi maganizo olakwika paokha. Kumbukirani munthu amene sangasinthe ngati mutasintha moyo wanu ndikudzikonda nokha.
Akatswiri a zamaganizo pakadali pano amalimbikitsanso kuti azikhala okhutira okha. Munthu wokhutira samakhala wosungulumwa, amakhala womasuka m'magulu ake. Mudziko la ufulu (koma osati kusungulumwa), munthu wotero amaona ubwino wambiri, mwachitsanzo, mwayi wochita chirichonse, osati kuwuza aliyense. Munthu waufulu akhoza kupeza nthawi yodzifunira, kuyenda, zosangalatsa.
Kodi mungadzikakamize bwanji kuiwala wokondedwa wanu?
Kuti mwamsanga musaiwale yemwe kale anali wokondedwa, iye ayenera kuchotsedwa kwathunthu pa moyo wake - kuchotsa onse olankhulana pa foni, kulepheretsa mu malo ochezera a pa Intaneti, ndi bwino - kuchotsa tsamba lake. Pa nthawi yomweyi, muyenera kuwonjezera malo anu okhala. Kuti muchite izi, muyenera kuyamba kuyendera mabizinesi ndi malo odyera osazoloŵera, mukuiwala njira yopita ku malo omwe maulendo amachitikira, kupanga anzanu atsopano, kupeza zosangalatsa zatsopano, kulowa nawo masewera.
Kusokonezeka kwakukulu ndi wokondedwa kumakhala kovuta , ngakhale mkaziyo atasankha kusiya munthu amene si wodalirika. Atapatukana, mayiyo anasiya yekha akhoza kutenga njira yowonongeka - alowetsa kugonana kanthawi kochepa, kumwa mowa kapena mankhwala osokoneza bongo. Pankhaniyi, muyenera kuonana ndi katswiri wa maganizo omwe angakuthandizeni kuti mukhale ndi chikondi chosagonjetsedwa.