Lero tidzakamba nkhani zomwe zili zofunika kwa atsikana ndi amayi ambiri, monga mphatso kuchokera kwa munthu wokondedwa. Tiyeni tiyesetse kumvetsa chifukwa chake amayi ena amaonongeka ndi otsogolera. Ndipo ena amawona ngati chozizwitsa maluwa ochepa chabe pachaka pa March 8.
Chifukwa chiyani munthu sapereka mphatso - zifukwa zomveka
Amayi nthawi zambiri amadabwa momwe angapangire munthu kupereka mphatso. Koma simukusowa kulingalira za momwe mungakakamizire, koma momwe mungapangire kuti apereke.
Kupanga munthu akhoza. Mphatso yokha yomwe imalandira mwa njira iyi sizingathetsere chimwemwe chochuluka: sizidzakhalanso mphatso, koma kukonzekera kugula.
Zidzakhala zomveka kwambiri kumvetsetsa chifukwa chake wokondedwa sakusokonezani ndi mphatso. Ndipo chifukwa cha ichi muyenera kulingalira mbali zingapo zofunika:
- Kodi mnzanu wapereka mphatso kwa inu kale?
- kodi amadziwa kuti kuli kofunikira kwa inu;
- Kodi ubale wanu umatha nthawi yayitali bwanji?
- kodi ndalama zamakono za mwamuna wanu ndi ziti?
- kaya amakukondani.
Mfundo yomaliza ndi yovuta. Pambuyo pa zonse, kokha chifukwa cha mkazi mwamuna ali okonzekera chirichonse.
Nanga bwanji ngati munthuyo sapereka mphatso?
Ngati mulibe mphatso ngakhale nthawi ya mgwirizano, ndibwino kuganizira: m'tsogolomu simudzakhala ndi zodabwitsa komanso zopatsa mphatso.
Kwa mwamuna nthawizonse amapereka mphatso, iye ayenera kuti azidzifunira yekha. Musatenge mphatso mopepuka. Mwamuna wanu akufuna kuwona kuyamikira ndi chimwemwe pamaso panu. Phunzirani kusangalala ndi mafilimu okwera mtengo, komanso mphatso zing'onozing'ono zopangidwa kuchokera pansi pamtima.
Pangani chikhalidwe cha banja kuti mupangitsane wina ndi mzake zodabwitsa. Ndipotu, zosangalatsa zimangokhalapo ndi amene amapereka, komanso ndi amene adakonza mphatsoyo.
Ndipo chofunika kwambiri, yesani kusunga zachilendo za ubalewu. Ndiponsotu, mphatso si mapeto mwayekha, ndizisonyezero za chikondi chanu ndi wokondedwa.