Posakhalitsa, msungwana aliyense amamva zokondwa kwambiri za munthu wina pokambirana ndi amayi achikulire: "Ayenera kuphunzira, ndi mkazi wanzeru kwambiri." Ndipo pa mphindi ino kwa nthawi yoyamba mu moyo wake amaganiza za momwe angakhalire mtsikana wanzeru. Kodi lingaliro la "mkazi wanzeru ndi wanzeru" limatanthauza chiyani, ndipo pali njira yomwe idzanenere momwe tingakhalire wanzeru zenizeni - tiyeni tiyankhule za nkhaniyi.
Zotsutsana zokhudza akazi
Mutu wa malingaliro aakazi ndi odzaza ndi zochitika zomwe nthawi zina zimayamba kutsutsana. Choonadi chikhoza kupezeka mwa kuyang'ana pa iwo mwakuya ndikuzindikira gawo la choonadi mwa aliyense wa iwo.
Onetsani oyamba. Chowopsya, ndi wanzeru bwanji - wokongola, wopusa
Mkazi wanzeru sangapambane ndi amuna - ndicho lingaliro lalikulu la gulu ili. Sali wachiwerewere, amazizira komanso amawotcha. Iye ndi wosangalatsa, wokhala ndi buluu, wosasangalala mu moyo wake. Ndipo kawirikawiri palibe aliyense amene akufuna izo. Mawu omalizira amasonyeza bwino momwe chiyambichi chimagwirira ntchito: Kuchokera kwa osungira amuna, omwe amayeza momwe angagwirire ndi kugonana. Ndipo ngati izi sizili bwino - akazi osabvuta awa ndi omwe amadziimba mlandu, onsewo ali okha, inde.
Amene amapindula ndi izi: Amuna osatetezeka omwe ali ndi nzeru zochepa.
Zithunzi zachiwiri: malingaliro achikazi salipo
Chiwerengero cha aphorisms pa nkhaniyi ndi yopandamalire. Msampha wotchuka wa maganizo - yesetsani kusonyeza kuti simuli sitima ya m'chipululu. Phunziroli linasonyeza kuti ophunzira aakazi analemba zolembazo mofanana ndi ophunzira aang'ono. Koma payekha pamene wophunzirayo asanayambe kugawidwa kwa ntchito adadzilola yekha nthabwala-kukaikira mu nzeru zazimayi - atsikanawo adasonyeza zotsatira zoipa kwambiri. Komabe, sizidzakhala zovuta kupeza chidziwitso cha akazi ochenjera kwambiri omwe apindulitsa chitukuko cha anthu m'mbiri yonse.
Amene amapindula ndi izi: anthu omwe ali ndi nzeru zochepa.
Sewero lachitatu: lingaliro lazimayi ndi nzeru zazimayi
Ndipo nzeru yazimayi ndiyo kubisa malingaliro anu, kuti musangalatse amuna. Mkazi wanzeru ndi wanzeru sangalole kuti kukayikira kuti mwamunayo ndi wofunikira kwambiri, wochenjera kwambiri, wasankha zonse ndikuzichita yekha. Mkazi wanzeru saganizira za zomwe wapindula, ndizofunika zake - kuti iwe! Kungakhale chinthu chopusa kwambiri, chimene angadandaule nacho. Mkazi wochenjera amadziyang'anira yekha: ayenera kukhala wokongola, wachikondi, wokonzeka ndi wodyetsa nthawi iliyonse ya tsikulo, ndi kumusamalira. Msungwana wokongola ndi wanzeru yekha akhoza kupambana - poyamba kukwatira, kenako kusunga banja.
Amene amapindula ndi zochitika izi: amuna odzikonda omwe ali ndi nzeru iliyonse.
Mchitidwe wachitatu umathandizidwa ndi amayi omwewo kuposa awiriwo. Mu gawoli muli malangizo ochokera kwa amayi, amalume, agogo aakazi - kupereka, kupirira, kutenga zambiri, ndi kufunsa zochepa. N'zosadabwitsa - kwa zaka mazana izi khalidwelo lalola kuti mayi ndi batete asakhalepo, komanso kuti akhale ndi malo ena oti akhale nawo.
Kodi mkazi wanzeru amatanthauzanji?
Tiyeni tibwerere kwa msungwana wamng'ono yemwe akuyang'ana yankho la funso lakuti "momwe mungakhalire mkazi wanzeru." Maonekedwe, tasiya, tsopano tayang'anani pofufuza okongola ndi aluntha, ndipo osangalala, akazi. Ndipo
Kotero momwe mungakhalire mkazi wanzeru: kukhala monga mkazi wodzaza kwathunthu, kapena kukoka gawo la akazi ndikukumana ndi zoyembekeza - kuyembekezera kuti izi zidzatchedwa mkazi weniweni wanzeru? Aliyense amadzipangira yekha kusankha.