Ntchito yapamwamba kwa anthu ambiri ndiyo magwero a ndalama, komanso nthawi yapadera, komanso njira yodziwonetsera. Ndipo njirayi si nthawizonse yophweka, kupatsa anthu zifukwa zambiri za nkhawa ndi nkhawa . Imodzi mwa mavuto opondereza kwambiri mndandanda umenewu nthawi zambiri imagwirizana ndi anzako. Pambuyo pake, mu ntchito iliyonse yothandizira pali anthu omwe saganizira za moyo wawo popanda mikangano. Ndipo osati kuti muwotchere kuntchito nthawi yambiri, ndikofunikira kwambiri kudziwa momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito mnzanu. Ndipo chifukwa cha ichi sikofunikira kuti athamange kwa olamulira mwamsanga ndi kudandaula. Mukhoza kugwiritsa ntchito njira zowonjezereka, koma zothandiza.
Kodi mungaike bwanji munthu pa ntchito?
Malingaliro a momwe angakhalire wogwira nawo ntchito kuntchito, ambiri angakhale othandiza kwa anthu omwe sali okonzeka kuti apite kumenyana kwautali ndi "magazi". Ulamuliro woyamba ndi wofunika: musayambe kutsutsana ndi wachiwawa. Ndipotu, izi ndi zomwe mumapanga zomwe amachita nthawi zambiri ndi zochita zake.
Koma ngati izi sizigwira ntchito, mukhoza kuyamba njira ina yothetsera vutoli, momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito mnzanu ntchito: Lankhulani ndi mtima wanu wopikisana. Mwinamwake mudzatha kudziwa chifukwa chake sakusangalatsani nokha ndikuchotseratu. Ngati gwero la mikangano yosasinthasintha ndi kugwirizana kwa mnzanuyo ndi makhalidwe ena osayenera a khalidwe , muyenera kudziwa momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito munthu wodzikuza m'malo mosasinthasintha ndi kumunyozetsa. Tsegulani mwansanga sayenera kunyalanyazidwa. Sungani boor, koma popanda kunyenga. Komanso, mwaulemu ndikumuuza momasuka kuti simukufuna kumvetsera mawu owopsya kuchokera kwa aliyense ku adiresi yanu. Akumbutseni mnzanu kuti iye mwini ali kutali ndi uchimo, choncho, palibe chifukwa chodzikweza pamwamba pa anthu ena.