Kodi mumadziona kuti ndiwe wofunikira, choncho n'kofunika kwambiri kuti palibe amene angathe kuthana nawo popanda thandizo lanu? Monga lamulo, izi ndi momwe anthu omwe ali ndi CW akuganiza kwambiri. Mwina izi zingawoneke ngati zonyansa kwa iwo, koma khalidweli ndi lopweteka kwambiri, kotero ndi kofunika kwa iwo omwe amayesetsa kukhala angwiro kumvetsa zomwe CSV ili.
Kodi CSW inatsimikiziranji?
Mwachidziwikire, nthawi zambiri mumakumana pa intaneti ngati chidule, chomwe chinali pafupi ndi nkhope ya munthu wosakhutira kapena cholengedwa. Cholinga cha CSW ndi funso loyenera kwa iwo omwe akufunadi kudziwa chomwe chiri kumbuyo makalata atatuwa. Kudziwa kuti ndikofunikira ndi zomwe kufotokozera kwachidulechi kumawonekera. Akatswiri ena amawonjezera izo ndi mawu ngati opanda pake.
Munthu yemwe ali ndi CSV yochulukirapo amamvetsera mwachidwi ndi zochita ndi mawu otsutsa amene amachokera kwa ena. Anthu otere nthawi zambiri amamva kuti ndi otsika, kudzichepetsa komanso kudzidzudzula. Iwo amadziwika ndi kukwiya msanga komanso nkhanza. Ndipo onse chifukwa amadziona ngati osiyana poyerekeza ndi ena onse.
Kudziwa kudzikuza - psychology
Anthu ambiri omwe, mosiyanasiyana, amakhala ndi mtima wotere, sangathe kuyesa bwino maganizo awo. Iwo ali otsimikiza kotheratu kuti njira yawo ya moyo ndiyo yolondola kwambiri, chotero iwo samamvetsera malangizo a alendo, kuphatikizapo achibale awo. Kuwonjezeka kwa CSV kumamveka munthu ngati munthu wodzikonda, yemwe malire ake onse ndi malire ake ayenera kuwululidwa.
CSV mwa amai imapezeka nthawi zambiri kusiyana ndi kugonana kwakukulu. Ndipo izi ndi zomveka bwino. Mzimayi ndi amayi ake ndi mkazi wake, omwe, malinga ndi ambiri, ayenera kusunga zonse. Pa chifukwa chimenechi, amayi ambiri amakhulupirira kuti ngati sachita izi kapena ntchito zapakhomo, dziko lonse lidzaima. Komanso, amayi ambiri amakhulupirira kuti zochita zawo zonse sizolondola, choncho amakhala ofunitsitsa kuchita bizinesi popanda kutsata malingaliro awo, omwe amachokera panja akuwoneka ngati kuika maganizo kwa wina.
CSW - ndi zabwino kapena zoipa?
Kodi CSW ndi chiyani, tachipeza kale. Tsopano tiyenera kumvetsetsa mbali ya khalidwe ili la khalidwe la umunthu. Ambiri a ife timatsimikiza kuti kudziona kuti ndife ofunikira ndizofanana ndi kudzidalira . Komabe, uwu ndi lingaliro lolakwika. Pamene lingaliro la ulemu likhudzidwa, limatanthauza kuti munthu mwadala amafuna kutonza kuti akhumudwitse. Ngakhale pa nkhani ya CSV, tikukamba za kutsutsidwa, komwe kumakhudzanso chikondi ndi kudzikuza, zomwe sizinawonedwe kuti ndi khalidwe labwino .
Tikapanda kudziona kuti ndife ofunikira, timakhala osasokonezeka, chifukwa palibe zomwe timachita kapena mawu. Kusowa kwa CSF kumapatsa munthuyo kudzidalira, chifukwa pamene tasiya mafano olingalira, tilibenso china chilichonse. Kuchokera pa zomwe tatchulazo, zikuwonekeratu kuti CSV yochulukirapo sichifukwa chabwino cha chikhalidwe.
CBC Syndrome
Ndizovuta kwambiri kufufuza chitukuko cha khalidwe ili la khalidwe. Akatswiri oyenerera amaimira CSV overestimated pakuwonetsedwa kwa "ogwira ntchito bwino matenda", ndiko, munthu amene amazoloŵera kuwerengera yekha ndi malingaliro ake ndi wina aliyense. Anthu oterewa ali ndi kudzikuza kwambiri, hamovatostyu ndipo nthawi yomweyo gulu linalake, lomwe limafotokozedwa momveka bwino: chifukwa chosowa munthu wochenjera pafupi, anthu oterewa amakonda kupuma pantchito nthawi ndi nthawi komanso amasangalala ndi ena.
Zizindikiro za CSW
Onetsetsani ngati munthu ali ndi lingaliro lodzikonda yekha kapena ayi, si kosavuta. Asayansi atulukira chiphunzitso chawo, malinga ndi zomwe anthu omwe ali ndi CSV amachitira zinthu monga momwe zilili:
- Kuletsa matenda . Izi ndizochitika pamene munthu ayesa kuyika maganizo ake pa dziko lapansi ndikuwonetsa dziko lonse.
- Mikangano . Nthawi zambiri amakangana ndi abwenzi komanso amzanga okha, pomwe munthu yemwe ali ndi CSW yochulukirapo, amayesa kutsimikizira maganizo ake, pamene akutsogolera mitundu yonse, nthawizina yosayenerera, umboni.
- Kulungamitsidwa . Kusonyeza kudzidalira mwa kudziwonetsera nokha ndi mbali yabwino, mwinamwake, yonyenga.
- Kukopa chidwi cha ena . Njira inanso yodzikweza, kukhumba kukhala pakati pa zochitika zonse. Ndipo mwadzidzidzi chinachake chidzachitika popanda kutenga nawo mbali - izi zidzakhala kugwa kwa chilengedwe chonse.
- Kuwombola kwakukulu . Pachifukwa ichi, munthu amayamba kubwezera chifukwa cha kutsutsidwa kumene akuwatsogolera. Ndipo ngakhale ataperekedwa pachigamulo, chilango chomwecho, kaya chilankhulo kapena thupi, sichitha kupewa.
- Kutengeka mu zofooka za anthu ena . Izi mwina ndi chitsanzo chochititsa chidwi cha mawonetseredwe a CSW. Potsutsana ndi zolakwa za anthu ena, anthu oterewa amayesa kukwera phazi lachangu ndikuwonetsa kuti ndizovuta kwambiri.
Kudziona kuti ndiwefunika - momwe ungachotsere?
Tanthauzo la chimene CSV sichikwanira kuthetsa izi osati khalidwe labwino kwambiri. Muyenera kudziwa momwe mungapiririre vutoli. Pamene QSW ikuchoka, ziyenera kuchitidwa kuti zisachoke. Chabwino, ngati mutha kuona vutoli mwa inu nokha. Ndizovuta kwambiri ngati mukutsimikizira kuti ndinu woyenera. Pankhaniyi, ndi bwino kumvetsera malangizo a anthu apafupi kwambiri. Ndithu, iwo sadzawalangiza zoipa. Choncho, polemba kufanana pakati pa makhalidwe anu ndi zizindikiro zapamwambazi, mutha kudziwa ngati mwaposa CSW kapena ayi.
Kodi mungatsutse bwanji CBC?
Kuchotsa khalidweli ndilo gawo lalikulu kumoyo wamphumphu, kumene kulibe kudzikonda ndi kutsutsa. Mlingo wa CSV ukhoza kuchepetsedwa:
- kulemba mopanda kukokomeza zabwino ndi zolakwika za khalidwe lanu;
- ganizirani, koma molingana ndi chikumbumtima chanu, mumatsogolera moyo;
- lembani mayina a iwo omwe anavulazidwa ndi kunyozedwa ndi mawu oyipa;
- yesetsani kukhala ndi maganizo atsopano;
- khalani ndi maganizo atsopano kwa inu nokha;
- Gwiritsani ntchito kusintha kwanu posachedwapa (njirayi ndi yothandiza kwambiri).
Kodi mungakweze bwanji CBC?
Nthawi zambiri zimatha kukumana ndi anthu omwe sadzizindikira okha. Zikuwoneka kuti izi ziyenera kukondwera, chifukwa palibe kunyada, kopanda pake, palibe kudzipereka. Komabe, si zonse zophweka. CSV yosamvetsetsa ikhoza kubweretsa mavuto a munthu osapitirira kuchulukira kwa khalidweli, kotero muyenera kudziwa njira zomwe zimathandizira kumvetsetsa kwanu.
Kodi mungatani kuti muwonjezere CSV:
- yesetsani kukhala ndi udindo wotsogolera (ngati mutakhala ndi chidaliro chonse mukulondola kwanu);
- dzichitireni nokha ndi chidaliro chochuluka;
- Musawope kuwonetsera kusakondwera kwanu ndi anthu ena omwe, mwa malingaliro anu, ali olakwika pa izi kapena mkhalidwe;
- kubwezerani umboni wanu ndi manambala, maina a anthu otchuka - izi zidzakuwonetsani inu kuchokera kumbali yabwino;
- Tamandani chitamando cha utsogoleri.