Kudzidalira

Pokambirana, nthawi ndi nthawi timagwiritsa ntchito mawu akuti "kudzidalira" ndi "kudzidalira", kutanthauza kuti munthu amene ali ndi makhalidwe amenewa ndi okondwa komanso osangalatsa mukulankhulana. Anthu omwe alibe makhalidwe amenewa, ndikufuna kudziwa momwe mungapitirizire kudzidalira kwanu. Mungathe kuchita izi mwa kuyesetsa kudziphunzitsa nokha. Zoona, muyenera kuopa kudzikuza kuti ndinu ofunika, choncho musapitirire.

Kodi kudzikuza kungakhale koopsa motani?

Zikuwoneka kuti kudzidzimva kukhala wosauka, kuthekera kuteteza maganizo awo, osati mwa kukweza mawu, koma pokhapokha ngati ali ndi mphamvu zawo? Chowonadi, palibe cholakwika mu izi, ngati kudzilemekeza nokha sikungokhalira kuwonjezera. Ndiye zingakhale zovuta. Maganizo oterewa amakulepheretsani kufufuza bwinobwino zomwe zikuchitika, ndipo izi zidzakuchititsani zolakwika, zomwe zingasokoneze ntchito yanu komanso moyo wanu.

Mmene mungakhalire wodzidalira nokha?

Izi zimachitika kuti makolo saganiza ngakhale momwe angakhalire odzidalira mwa mwana. Zotsatira zake, munthu wamkulu akukumana ndi mavuto ambiri chifukwa chosowa kudzidalira. Koma ndizofunika kusintha, choncho timayamba mwadzidzidzi kugwira ntchito tokha.

1. Munthu yemwe alibe kudzidalira, nthawi zambiri amakhala wodzichepetsa, choncho choyamba timayamba kulimbana ndi izi. Kumbukirani makhalidwe anu abwino, iwo ndi 100% omwe muli nawo. Lembani pa pepala, ndipo motsutsana ndi khalidwe lirilonse limasonyeza zomwe zakuthandizani kuti mukwaniritse moyo wanu. Kudzikuza pa kupambana kwanu ndi sitepe yeniyeni kukulitsa kudzikuza.
2. Pokhala ndi mndandanda wathunthu wa makhalidwe anu abwino, mudzatha kuyesa mbali zina za ntchito zawo. Taganizirani, mungagwiritse ntchito maluso anu ndikukwaniritsa zambiri. Ndipo musaganize kuti zochitika zanu ndi luso lanu sizikusowa kwina kulikonse, si choncho.
3. Ikani cholinga chatsopano patsogolo panu, makamaka chomwe mukufuna kukwaniritsa posachedwa. Pambuyo pa chigonjetso chilichonse, onetsetsani kuti mudzitamandeni nokha, mukudzikuza chifukwa chakuti pang'onopang'ono mumachokera ku chiwongolero cha kukhumudwa ndi kudzichepetsa.
4. Nthawi zambiri anthu ali ofooka mwauzimu, osatetezeka mwa iwo okha, kuyesa kukweza pamwamba pa ena mwa kunyoza makhalidwe awo. Ndi munthu wotere, nthawi zonse mumamva ngati wopusa wopanda pake. Choncho, ndi anthu oterewa simukuyenda mumsewu, yesetsani kulankhulana nawo, mochepa momwe mungathere.
5. Kulankhulana zambiri ndi abwenzi, anthu omwe amamvetsa ndikukuyamikirani. Kuchokera kwa iwo, ngati mukumva kuti palibe tsankho, kutsutsa kudzakhala koyenera, kudzakuthandizani kuti muyambe kuchitapo kanthu. Ndipo panthawi yovuta, abwenzi adzakuthandizani, zomwe ziri zofunika kwambiri pa sitepe ya kudziphunzitsa nokha.
6. Yambani moona mtima kuti mudzakwaniritsa zonse chifukwa cha maluso anu. Yerekezerani zofanana ndi zimenezo, ganizirani momveka bwino mmene mumamvera. Kumbukirani zomwe munamva, zidzakuthandizani kuti mukhulupirire nokha, ndipo mwamsanga mukwaniritse zokhumba zanu.
7. Ngati mwakhala kale ndi chizoloŵezi chotumikira, kupirira kuchititsidwa manyazi, ndiye nthawi yoti muwononge. Tsopano, nthawi iliyonse musanachite chinachake, ganizirani ngati ziri zogwirizana ndi zikhumbo zanu kapena ayi. Ngati wina akuwonetsani zolephera zanu, yesani mosamala, kaya zilipodi, kapena ndiyeso la wina kuti adzinenere nokha. Ngati ndi choncho, zochita zoterezi ziyenera kuimitsidwa. Chitani zomwe simukuzikonda, simuyenera ndipo palibe yemwe angakukakamizeni, ndi kukuchititsani manyazi, palibe yemwe ali ndi ufulu. Uku si kunyada, koma kumayambiriro kwa kudzikonda.