Mu maloto, achibale oyandikana nthawi zambiri amawatenga ndi zina. Kuti afotokoze molondola malotowo, momwe abambo amathandizirapo, ndi bwino kulingalira zomwe zikugwirizana nazo.
Kodi bambo amalota chiyani?
Maloto omwe mumawawona abambo anu ndi chizindikiro cha nzeru, ndiko kuti, m'moyo weniweni mumafunikira malangizo othandiza ndi kuthandizira. Maloto omwe mumakumbatira abambo anu ndi chizindikiro chakuti mukuyesera kuthetsa mkangano umene ukuyimira pakati pa nthawi yaitali. Ndibwino kuti musachoke payekha nokha ndikutha kuthetsa vutoli. Mbale wosayankhula ndi chizindikiro cha kusintha kosasintha kwenikweni.
Ngati muli ndi ndewu ndi abambo anu, ndizisonyezo kuti mwasokonezeka musanapange chisankho chofunikira. Maloto otanthauzira amalimbikitsa mwakachetechete kuti mutulukitse mkhalidwe wanu nokha. Ngati muwona momwe abambo anu akulira - chizindikiro chakuti sakonda munthu yemwe ali pafupi ndi inu. Awa ndi chenjezo kuti mutha kuyembekezera zokhumudwitsidwa mnzanuyo. Kukambirana ndi kholo kumalongosola kuti mwamsanga mudzasangalala ndikumacheza ndi anzanu akale. Mu malotowo, abambo anawonekera ndevu - chizindikiro cha kusintha zinthu zakuthupi. Bambo wodalirika amakuchenjezani kuti mwanyalanyaza nkhani, zomwe ziyenera kuthetsedwa mwamsanga.
Kodi bambo woledzera amalota chiyani?
Maloto omwe mumawona kholo woledzeredwa ndi chizindikiro choipa, chithunzi choperekedwa mu bizinesi ndi payekha, komanso matenda. Maloto ena amachenjeza za kuyambika kwa nyengo yosagwirizana ndi imfa ya ulamuliro. Maloto a abambo oledzera amawonetsanso kukana zatsopano zomwe zingasinthe moyo kukhala wabwino.
N'chifukwa chiyani akulota kuti bambo ake wamwalira?
Maloto oterewa ali ndi zotsutsana. Muyenera kuyembekezera mavuto akulu, mwachitsanzo, kuchotsedwa kuntchito, mavuto mu bizinesi, kukhumudwa mwapafupi ndi ena. Maloto ena akhoza kukhala chenjezo kuti muyenera kukhala osamala pokwaniritsa zomwe mwatenga.
Nchifukwa chiyani bambo wodwala akulota?
Pankhaniyi, kugona kumatanthauzira matenda anu. Komabe zingakhale chenjezo kuti posachedwa kuyenera kuyembekezera mavuto omwe angasokoneze moyo wanu. Wotanthauzira maloto amalimbikitsa mosamala kuganizira sitepe iliyonse kuti asapange cholakwika chomwe chingasokoneze chirichonse.