Nthawi zambiri anthu ambiri amakhala ndi anthu otchuka osiyana. Ndipo sizinali choncho nthawi zonse kuti wolota amakupiza nyenyezi iyi. Chifukwa chiyani anthu olemekezeka amalota, ndipo ndi zotsatira zotani kuchokera ku malotowo - nkhani yotsutsana ndipo zimadalira munthu mwiniwakeyo komanso buku lotolo limene akugwiritsa ntchito. Pambuyo pake, kutanthauzira kwa loto lomwelo m'mabuku osiyanasiyana a loto kungakhale kosiyana. Nkhaniyi ikuuzeni zomwe maloto amalota - woimba, wokonda, kapena wina wotchuka.
Kutanthauzira kwa maloto osiyanasiyana ndi omasulira
Buku lalingaliro la Chingerezi pa funso lakuti "Kodi msonkhano wamaloto ndi wotchuka ndi wotani?" Mayankho omwe wolemba malotoyo, poyamba, ayenera kumvetsera zomwe nyenyezi yomwe adawona mu maloto - kukongola, etc. Mwina zomwe mukufuna, posakhalitsa kukhala chenicheni.
Wamasulira wotanthauzira malingaliro amalingaliro akuti wolota wadzipanga yekha fano la munthu woyenera, kukhala wolondola, wamwamuna kapena wamkazi. Ndiponso, maloto ngati amenewa angasonyeze kwa munthu fano lomwe iye mwiniyo angafune kukhala nalo mwa iyemwini.
Buku lotolo la Catherine the Great limanena kuti wolotayo ayenera kutenga nawo mbali pokambirana kwambiri ndi akuluakulu ake. Zotsatira za zokambiranazi zidzadalira mwachindunji ndi mapulani anu a tsogolo. Kuwonjezera apo, nkotheka kuti mwamsanga ndi mofulumira kukwera makwerero a ntchito. Pano pali msonkhano wa maloto ndi olemekezeka, ngati mumaganizira pa buku la maloto la mfumu. Ndiponso, maloto otero angasonyeze mtima wotsutsa kwambiri kwa munthu mwiniwake ndi malo ake.
Malingaliro a maloto a Akulina amachitira maloto oterowo, monga chizindikiro cha kuyandikira kwa munthu wamphamvu.
N'chifukwa chiyani mukuganiza kuti mukujambula zithunzi ndi anthu otchuka?
Maloto oterewa akuyimira mavuto a moyo ogwirizana ndi kutenga udindo kwa munthu wina. Komabe, sangaonekere, monga momwe munthuyu ndi moyo wake zidzakhalire zofunika kwa inu.
Koma ngati munthu adawona maloto ndikupsompsona ndipo tsopano akuganizira kuti kukupsompsonana ndi munthu wotchuka akulota, ndiye kuti ndibwino kukhala wotetezeka ndi kukhala okonzeka kugwa mofulumira. Komanso, maloto oterewa angatanthauze kulapa mbali ya wokondedwa.
Komabe, chinthu chachikulu muzochitikazi ndikuti musamangidwe ndi kutsogolera malingaliro anu mumsewu wokondweretsa komanso wofunikira. Ndipo padzakhalanso zowonjezereka komanso zopanda kudzidzimitsa zokha zomwe sizidzachitika.