Kulumikizana ndi mfundo yosiyana-siyana yophatikizapo yomwe imaonetsa kugwirizana kosawoneka pakati pa mayi ndi mwana, omwe amaima pamwamba pa mawu, nzeru komanso ngakhale maganizo. Kulingalira ndikumvetsa kwa mwana wanu, tanthauzo la zikhumbo zake, zosowa ndi zosakhutira ndi zizindikiro zosadziwika komanso zosamvetsetseka, manja, zomveka.
Kulingalira - kumvetsa bwino
Chitsanzo chotsimikizika cha kugwirizana chinalongosola momwe amayi achichepere ku Guatemala amaonera. Amabereka ana atabadwa kuchokera pachifuwa, kuwakonza ndi nsalu za nsalu, chinachake ngati sling. Pa nthawi yomweyi, sagwiritsira ntchito makapu kapena ma diapers, ndipo nthawi yomweyo amakhala ouma komanso oyeretsa nthawi zonse. Ndipo pamene mwana akufunika kupita kuchimbudzi, amangom'bzala pansi pa chitsamba chapafupi. Pa funso la momwe amadziwira nthawi yoyenera, amakhumudwa - ndipo anthu ambiri amazindikira bwanji zomwe amafunikira mu chimbuzi? Izi zikutanthauza kuti amamva zosowa za ana pamtendere ngakhale mwana wamng'ono asanaphunzire bwino.
Pankhani yopindulitsa mwachindunji kwa mwanayo, kugwirizana kumathandiza kukhazikitsa makhalidwe abwino mwa mwanayo. Choncho, mwana yemwe anakulira m'chikondi amakonda dziko lozungulira. Ngati amayi amamvetsera mwachidwi malingaliro ake ndi zosowa zake, iye akakhala wamkulu amakhalanso wachifundo komanso amadziŵa zosowa ndi zofuna za ena. Mwachidule, kugwirizana kumathandizira kuti apangidwe umunthu wathanzi, wodzaza.
Kulingalira ndi chinthu chodabwitsa chomwe chinapangidwa, koma sichikhoza kuphunzira mwachindunji. Amapangidwa pang'onopang'ono kuchokera nthawi yomweyo pamene mayiyo adamva kusintha kwa thupi lake ndipo adawona zolemba ziwiri.
Ndondomeko zokhazikitsa mgwirizano
1. Mimba ndi sakramenti yokhala ndi moyo watsopano, yomwe mayiyo amakonzekera mwachibadwa. Ali ndi malingaliro atsopano, zokonda ndi zofunika. Iye sangathe kugwira ntchito mokwanira ndipo nthawi zonse amafunikira kupuma. Kulankhula momveka bwino, panthawi yomwe mayi ali ndi mimba, mayi salinso wachibale, amayamba kukhala mayi ndipo ntchito yake yaikulu pa nthawi imeneyi ndikumadzipangitsa kuti agwirizane ndi mwana wake wosabadwa. Mwamwayi, mikhalidwe yamakono ya anthu ambiri imakakamiza akazi, ndipo nthawi zambiri sakhala ndi mwayi wodzipatula okha komanso kutenga mimba, chifukwa chiyambi cha kukhazikitsidwa kwa mgwirizano chikhoza kuphwanyidwa.
2. Kubadwa ndiyeso osati amayi okha, komanso mwana. Ndikofunika kuti panthawiyi amayi azikhala odekha, osakhala ndi mantha, mwinamwake kusokonezeka maganizo kumaperekedwa kwa mwanayo. Chofunikira ndi maminiti oyambirira a moyo wa mwana, ndi nthawi yomwe ndikofunika kuti amayi, atamugwirizira mwanayo atatha kupweteka kwa kubadwa kwake, amamubwezera pang'ono pokha pokhapokha ngati kale anali ndi moyo wabwino. Ndi panthawi iyi, pamene pali kutulutsa mphamvu kwa mahomoni m'magazi, mayi ali mu chidziwitso, pafupi ndi thunthu. Zimathandizira mwachindunji kukhazikitsidwa kwa mgwirizano - tsopano amayi amatha kumvetsa komanso kumva mwana wake wakhanda.
M'dziko lamakono lomwe lakhala lotukuka, sikokwanira pamene ntchito imaperekedwa popanda mankhwala, chithandizo chamankhwala,
3. Nthawi ya mwana wakhanda . Ndikofunika kwambiri panthawiyi mwanayo ali pafupi ndi mayi. Kuti ukapolo ukhazikitsidwe ndikulimbikitsidwa kwamuyaya, kuyankhulana koyenera ndi kulankhulana pakati pa mayi ndi mwana kumafunika. Zipatala zamakono, monga momwe zingathere, yesetsani kukwaniritsa zofunikira pakukonzekera zipinda zogwirizira amayi ndi mwana. Kuonjezeranso kulimbikitsa kulankhulana kumaphatikizapo kugona tulo , kugwirana chingwe komanso kugwirizanitsa nthawi zonse ndi mwanayo ndi amayi ake.