Chiyanjano

Mwamuna ndi munthu wokhala pakati pa anthu, choncho, m'pofunika kufufuza zomwe munthu ali nazo m'dongosolo la chiyanjano, chifukwa zofunikira za umunthu wa munthu ziwonekera apa. Ndipo ngati zili choncho, ndiye kuti ndi bwino kumvetsetsa chiyanjano ndi chikhalidwe chawo.

Zizindikiro za kugonana

Maubwenzi a anthu (chikhalidwe) ndi mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya kugwirizana komwe kumachitika pamene anthu akuyanjana. Chikhalidwe cha maubwenzi a anthu omwe amawasiyanitsa ndi anzawo ndi mitundu ina ya maubwenzi ndikuti anthu amawoneka mwa iwo okha ngati "I", omwe sali chiwonetsero chathunthu cha munthu weniweni.

Choncho, chikhalidwe chachikulu cha chiyanjano ndi chikhazikitso cha ubale weniweni pakati pa anthu (magulu a anthu) omwe amalola anthu amtundu wawo kuzindikira maudindo awo ndi maudindo awo. Zitsanzo za chiyanjano zingakhale zogwirizana ndi achibale awo ndi anzako kuntchito, kuyankhulana ndi abwenzi ndi aphunzitsi.

Mitundu ya maubwenzi ndi anthu

Pali mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya maubwenzi, choncho mitundu yawo ndi yambiri. Tiyeni tiyang'ane njira zofunikira zogwirizanitsa machitidwe a mtundu uwu ndi kuwapereka kwa mitundu ina.

Maubwenzi amtunduwu amagawidwa malinga ndi izi:

• ndi mphamvu ya mphamvu (maubwenzi ozungulira kapena otsika);
• kukhala ndi katundu ndi katundu (kalasi, kalasi);
• pazigawo za mawonetseredwe (zachuma, zachipembedzo, makhalidwe, ndale, zokondweretsa, zamalamulo, kuchuluka kwa anthu, zogwirizana);
• mwa lamulo (lokhazikitsidwa ndi losavomerezeka);
• pa chikhalidwe cha mkati ndi chikhalidwe cha anthu (chidziwitso, kulankhula, chilankhulo).

Zina mwa mitundu yachiyanjano ndi magulu a subspecies. Mwachitsanzo, machitidwe ovomerezeka ndi osagwirizana angathe kukhala:

• nthawi yayitali (abwenzi kapena anzako);
• kawirikawiri (anthu osadziwika bwino);
• ntchito (makontrakitala ndi ogula);
• osatha (banja);
• maphunziro;
• kugonjera (abambo ndi ogwira ntchito);
• chifukwa-ndi-zotsatira (wodwala ndi wolakwa).

Kugwiritsira ntchito mtundu wina kumadalira zolinga ndi zolinga za phunziroli, ndipo pofuna kufotokoza chodabwitsa, chimodzi kapena zingapo zingagwiritsidwe ntchito. Mwachitsanzo, kuti tipeze mgwirizano pakati pa gulu, ndizomveka kugwiritsira ntchito mndandanda wotsatizana ndi malamulo komanso mkati mwa chikhalidwe cha anthu.

Makhalidwe anu mu dongosolo la chiyanjano

Monga tanenera kale, mtundu wina wa chiyanjano umagwirizana ndi umunthu umodzi wokha, kotero, pamene pakufunika kupeza chidziwitso chokwanira, ndikofunikira kulingalira dongosolo la chiyanjano. Popeza dongosolo lino liri pa maziko a makhalidwe onse a munthu, limakhazikitsa zolinga zake, zolinga, chikhalidwe cha umunthu wake. Ndipo izi amatipatsa chidziwitso cha ubale wa munthu kwa anthu omwe amauza nawo, bungwe lomwe akugwira ntchito, kudziko la ndale komanso lachikhalidwe la dziko lake, ku maonekedwe a umwini, ndi zina zotero. Zonsezi zimatipatsa "chithunzithunzi cha chikhalidwe" cha umunthu, koma sitiyenera kuwona malingaliro awa ngati malingaliro onse omwe anthu amakhala nawo. Zizindikirozi zikuwonetsedwa muzochita, zochita za munthu, mu nzeru zake, zamaganizo komanso zofunikira. Psychology ndi yosagwirizana kwambiri ndi maganizo, kotero, kufufuza kwa maganizo a munthu payekha kuyenera kuchitidwa kulingalira za malo a munthu mu dongosolo la chikhalidwe. gt;