Banja ndilo anthu apafupi kwambiri, choncho vuto la nkhanza zapakhomo, lomwe limakhala lofala kwambiri pakati pa anthu amasiku ano, ndi loopsa kwambiri. Ziwerengero zikukhumudwitsa, ndipo chiwawa m'banja chimayang'anizana ndi amayi oposa 50%. Milandu pamene wozunzidwayo ndi mwamuna sapezeka - 5% mwa chiwerengero cha zigawo. Kawirikawiri izi zimachitika m'maanja omwe mwamuna amakhala wamkulu kuposa mkazi wake. Choipitsitsa kwambiri, anthu amene amachitiridwa nkhanza panyumba sadziwa zoyenera kuchita, kupitirizabe kulekerera ena.
Mitundu ya nkhanza zapakhomo
Pali mitundu yotsatira ya nkhanza za m'banja: thupi, kugonana, chuma ndi maganizo.
- Chiwawa chakuthupi chimakambidwa mobwerezabwereza, mfundo zake n'zosavuta kuzindikira ndi kutsimikizira. Koma ndi bwino kuganizira kuti gululi sikuti limangokhalira kumenyedwa mwankhanza, koma limathanso kukwapula, kukwapula ndi kukwapula. Kawirikawiri chirichonse sichitha pambuyo pa kumenyedwa koyamba, kumenyedwa kumapitirira, kumakhala nkhanza kwambiri nthawi zonse, ndipo ngati sichidzachitapo kanthu, zonsezi zingapangitse imfa ya wogwidwayo.
- Chiwawa chogonana. Kawirikawiri zimachitika kuti amuna amakakamiza akazi awo kukhala pachibwenzi pambuyo poti amenyedwa. Nthawi zina izi zimachitika poyankha kukana kukhala ndi mwana.
- Nkhanza zachuma zikuwonetsedwa mu kuletsa ntchito, kutaya ndalama. Kawirikawiri, amayi ndi ophunzira a sekondale amadziwika ndi izi. Mwamuna amaletsa kupita kuntchito, amayesetsa kusamalira banja payekha, ndipo pamene mkaziyo akudalira kwambiri ndalama, amayamba kuseka ndi kuyika cholakwa chake.
- Nkhanza za maganizo (maganizo) m'banja zimakhala zosautsa, kutsutsa nthawi zonse, kuwopsezedwa, kuchititsidwa manyazi, kuumirizidwa ku zochitika zilizonse, kuletsa kulankhulana ndi achibale kapena odziwa, ndi zina zotero. Chiwawa cha maganizo m'mabanja ndi chofala, koma zingakhale zovuta kuzizindikira. Ndipo komabe izo zimaphatikizapo zotsatira zoopsa kwambiri. Chifukwa chozunzidwa, mkazi amadziwa kuti nkofunika kuthawa, ndipo anthu omwe amachitiridwa nkhanza m'banja amayamba kukhulupilira kuti ali otsika. Akazi amatsimikiza kuti osayenera ana abwino, ana omwe amakula m'mabanja otero, amakhala ndi zovuta zambiri zomwe zingachititse kuti ayambe kuzunza anzawo kapena achibale awo.
Zifukwa za Nkhanza za M'banja
Kulimbikira kuchita zachiwawa ndi choloĊµa cholowa, koma nthawi zambiri zimapezeka kudzera mu zovuta za moyo, mwachitsanzo, maphunziro m'banja lomwe bambo amamenya kapena kunyoza mayi kapena mwana . Choncho, njira yabwino kwambiri yothetsera nkhanza zapakhomo ndizopakati pa zochitika zoterezi ndi kubwezeretsedwa kwa ozunzidwa. Komanso, zochitika zosiyanasiyana zimathandizira kufalikira kwa chiwawa, mwachitsanzo, "mawu a mwamuna ndi lamulo kwa mkazi". Amuna ambiri amakonda kukakamiza lamuloli kudzera mu chiwawa. Kawirikawiri anthu sangathe kulankhula ndi kupeza chiyanjano, posankha kuthetsa mavuto ndi zida zawo.
Chiwawa m'banja, chochita chiyani?
Amayi ambiri amakayikira kupempha chitetezo ku nkhanza zapakhomo kwa anthu ena, nthawi zambiri amadzudzula okha zomwe zikuchitika. Choncho, iwo sapita kwa apolisi ndipo samawombera kuti athetse banja, amasankha kuti apitirize kulekerera kuderera ndi kuchititsidwa manyazi. Koma kuletsa chithandizo chotero n'kofunika, mwinamwake kungathetse chisoni kwambiri. Ngati zinthu sizingatheke pokhapokha, mungathe kuonana ndi mabungwe apadera omwe ali mumzinda uliwonse waukulu. M'mizinda ina, pali malo apadera omwe anthu omwe amachitira nkhanza zapakhomo amathandizidwa m'maganizo, komanso amapereka malo ogona.