Zomwe mungachite poyankha funso loti sindingakwatirane ndizochuluka. Tidzakambirana zina mwazofunikira kwambiri kuti mukhale ndi chibwenzi. Pachifukwa ichi, sitidzawona maonekedwe a wobwebweta, popeza ngakhale akazi okongola komanso okonda kwambiri bizinesi amakhalabe osakwatira mpaka kukalamba.
Bwanji osakwatirana ndi ine?
Chifukwa chachikulu chimene mkazi kapena msungwana sangakhoze kukwatirana ndi chikumbumtima chake. Koma kusiyana kwa maganizo osadziwika kungagawidwe m'magulu angapo:
- Zomwe simunaphunzirepo pa moyo wa banja la makolo, oyandikana nawo, mabwenzi, ambiri, chilengedwe chokhacho chimangolepheretsa maganizo a mkazi kumvetsa kuti angathe kukhala ndi banja losangalala. Kuopa uku kumawopsyeza anthu pamtima.
- Kupempha mobwerezabwereza kwa wopempha kuti akhale ndi udindo wa mwamuna wam'tsogolo - chifukwa china chomwe sichingatheke kukwatira. Pofuna kuthana ndi vutoli, mkazi amafunika kuti afike pamayendedwe ake mu makhalidwe, chikhalidwe komanso ngakhale kugonana, kapena kuchepetsa chiwerengero cha zofuna kumsika wapansi.
- Kutetezeka mwa mphamvu zawo, mawonekedwe awo, luso lawo ndi luso lawo amaopseza a suitors omwe angathe. Akazi okondedwa, mvetserani, mpaka mutaphunzira kudzikonda nokha, palibe amene adzakukondani. Ndipo musadabwe ndikudzifunsa tsiku liri lonse funso loti sindingathe kukwatira ngati m'mawa uliwonse pagalasi mumayang'ana nokha pa zolakwa zonse.
- Sizingatheke kukwatiwa ndi amayi omwe adakhumudwa kwambiri ndi maubwenzi akale kapena nkhanza za chikhalidwe ndi zachiwerewere kuchokera kwa amuna m'nthawi ya moyo wawo. Mkazi wotero wochokera kwa munthu aliyense watsopano amayembekezeranso kuti ali ndi chidziwitso china ndipo iye amatsogolere chiyanjano chatsopano chosiyana ndi choyipa.
- Amuna ena amawopa ndi kupirira kochuluka kwa mkazi muukwati. Kapena mosiyana, kudzichepetsa kwa amayi ndi kumverera kobisika nthawi zonse kumapangitsa munthu kugwedezeka. Popanda kudziwa zilakolako zanu, sakudziwa choti achite ndipo mtsikana sangakwatirane.
Pa zochitika zonsezi ndi zina zotero, pangakhale njira imodzi yokha yochokera. Choyamba musinthe nokha ndi maonekedwe anu, musamapeze maubwenzi akuluakulu omwe mukufuna, ndipo mudzadabwa momwe zinthu zidzasinthira.