Banja lirilonse ndi dongosolo la chikhalidwe, lomwe nthawi zonse likugwirizana ndi dziko lozungulira. Banja lidzapitirizabe kugwira ntchito ngati likugonjetsedwa ndi malamulo oyambirira, omwe ali osagwirizana kwambiri: lamulo loti likhale losunga banja komanso lamulo la chitukuko chake. Sizingakhale zodabwitsa kuzindikira kuti moyo wa banja umaphatikizidwa ndi kusintha kosasintha komanso kosasunthika m'zigawo zake.
Monga mukudziwira, lingaliro la banja lomwe langolengedwa posachedwapa ndi okwatirana omwe akhala pamodzi zaka zambiri, ndilosiyana mofanana ndi moyo wa banja.
Zochitika zenizeni ndi zaka-kusintha kwa maganizo mwa abwenzi m'banja kungathe kudziwa kukula kwa magawo a moyo wa banja lililonse.
Ndondomeko ya moyo wa banja
Mu psychology m'ma 40, 20 peresenti. lingaliro linayambira pa magawo a moyo wa banja. Poyamba, panali pafupifupi 24. Panthawiyi, izi zimaphatikizapo magawo otsatirawa:
- Gawo la chibwenzi.
- Kukhala opanda ana.
- Gawo la triad (kuwoneka kwa ana).
- Ukwati wokhwima.
- Gawo limene ana amachoka panyumbamo.
- "Sungani Nest".
- Gawo lotsiriza limene mmodzi mwa okwatirana amakhalabe yekha pambuyo pa imfa ya wokondedwa.
Gawo lirilonse asanakwatirane amaika ntchito zina. Choncho, banja lomwe limagonjetsa mavuto omwe akukumana nawo, kukhazikitsa ntchito mkati ndi kunja, limatchedwa kugwira ntchito. Apo ayi - osagwira ntchito. Chisankho choyenera cha banja losagwira ntchito chidzakhala kufunafuna thandizo kwa katswiri wamaganizo. Kuyenda kwa moyo kwa chitukuko cha banja kumatenga kusintha kovuta kuchoka ku gawo limodzi kupita kwina ndipo sikuti nthawi zonse abwenzi amatha kupeza mwayi wotsatizana ndi zinthu zatsopano m'moyo wa banja.
Gawo lalikulu la moyo wa banja
Gawo la moyo wa banja liri ndi mavuto awo ndi mavuto, tidzawafotokozera mwatsatanetsatane.
- Pa nthawi ya chibwenzi pamaso paukwati, cholinga chachikulu ndi chikhumbo chofuna kukwaniritsa zofuna zakuthupi ndi zamaganizo kuchokera ku tanthauzo la banja la makolo ndi kusankha kwa mwamuna wamtsogolo, bizinesi ndi kugwirizana naye.
- Pali mabanja ang'onoang'ono omwe safulumira kuthetsa nthawiyi. Chifukwa cha ichi - mantha obisika mkati mwawo (kholo). Ndipo ena mosiyana amayesa kupanga banja lawo mwamsanga, motero amadzimasula okha ku ubwenzi wapamtima wa makolo ndi ana. Ena sangakwatirane chifukwa cha kusokonekera kwachuma komanso zachuma.
- Panthawi imene banja limakhala opanda ana, kusintha kumakhazikitsidwa, komwe kumakhudzana ndi chikhalidwe chawo. Mizere ya m'banja ndi ya kunja imatanthauzidwa, kaya kapena zosokoneza m'banja la achibale zimaloledwa. Panthawiyi, abwenziwo amathera nthawi yambiri akukhazikitsana zokambirana pazinthu zosiyanasiyana. Sikunatulukidwe kutuluka kwa maganizo, kugonana ndi mavuto ena.
- Pa maonekedwe a ana aang'ono m'banja, okwatirana amagawidwa maudindo. Izi zimachokera kwa abambo ndi amayi, kusintha kwa maganizo, kusakwanira kuti akhale nokha. Zikakhala kuti mwana wosafuna amawonekera, pali mavuto omwe amakumana ndi mavuto a maphunziro ndi kumvetsetsa kwa okwatirana, kusiyana kumeneku kudzakhala kovuta chifukwa cha maonekedwe a mwanayo.
- Vuto la pakati pa banja ndilo pamene ana achoka "chisa" cha makolo. Zokwanira mabanja nthawiyi
pali chisudzulo chachikulu. Gawo ili liri ndi nkhawa yaikulu. Okwatirana ayenera kusankha pa zolinga zatsopano, zofunikira, ndi zina zotero. - Pa gawo lomalizira la moyo, kukonzanso kwa kayendedwe ka ntchito mu banja kumachitika motsatira chisankho chokhalabe ndi thanzi, kupanga moyo wokhutiritsa wokhutiritsa moyo wa onse awiri.
Choncho, banja limadutsa pa moyo wawo panthawi yomwe ikukula. Chinthu chofunika kwambiri m'nthawi ino ndi kugonjetsa mavuto, kuyendetsa mwendo ndi mapazi anu.