Aliyense wa ife akufuna kudziwa chomwe chiri chinsinsi cha chimwemwe . Ndithudi muli ndi maanja okwatirana omwe akhala pamodzi zaka makumi ambiri, ngakhale zovuta ndi zopinga zomwe zimakumana nazo pamoyo wawo.
Chinsinsi, chitseguka!
Masiku ano, mwatsoka, anthu amaganiza kuti moyo wa banja ndi zosangalatsa komanso zosangalatsa. Ndipo pambuyo pa ukwati mwamsanga anakhumudwa. Chifukwa palibe ndalama zokwanira zokhumba zawo. Chifukwa mumayenera kuphunzira kukhala ndi zizoloŵezi za munthu wina. Pambuyo pake, aliyense amatha ngakhale makapu payekha. Mukuwona mkaziyo kuchokera kumbali inayo, zindikirani zolephera ndi zinthu zing'onozing'ono zomwe zimakukhumudwitsani. Ndiye muli ndi ana ndipo mulibe mphamvu. Chithunzicho, kwenikweni, sichikondwera. Koma onse awiriwa akukumana nazo izi. Funso ndilo, kodi mungathe kulipirira?
Choncho, ndikofunika kwambiri kuti mukhale ndi chidaliro pa zosankha zanu, kudziwa moyo wanu womanga naye banja, kuyang'ana khalidwe lake mmadera osiyanasiyana, kudziwa zolakwa zonse ndi kukhala wokonzeka kuvomereza zomwe simumasuka nazo.
Yankhani nokha funso - kodi mutha kugwiritsa ntchito moyo wanu wonse ndi munthu uyu? Kodi adzatha kukuthandizani inu ndi ana anu, ali woona mtima, ndinu okhutira ndi khalidwe lake ndi khalidwe lake? Muyenera kudziwa pafupifupi chirichonse chokhudza wosankhidwa wanu kuti musakhumudwe.
Chinsinsi cha chimwemwe chenicheni cha amayi chimakhala mukuti mkazi ayenera kukhala mkazi wabwino, mayi wachikondi ndi mnzake wokhulupirika.
Zinsinsi za banja losangalala
Potsatira malangizo othandiza, banja lanu losangalala lidzakhala losasintha.
Banja losangalala, chinsinsi cha choyamba
Kukhulupirika. Ndi kukhulupirika - maziko a banja lolimba, ndipo kotero kuyambira nthawi yakale. Choncho, kugwirizanitsa zolinga zanu, muyenera kukhala okhulupirika kwa mnzanuyo, mukhoza kukambirana nkhaniyo ndi wosankhidwa wanu. Ndipo kumbukirani kuti chikho chosweka sichimamatirana pamodzi.
Chinsinsi chachiwiri.
Yamikirani mkazi wanu. Ngati muli ndi nkhanza kwa theka lachiwiri mu moyo wanu, yesetsani kukambirana nthawi yomweyo - kunyoza kungakhale kolimba ndi nthawi. Kuwonjezera apo, ndikofunika kuti mupeze chiyanjano. Choncho, yesetsani kugwiritsa ntchito tsiku ndi tsiku monga tsiku lomaliza la moyo wanu, samalirani ndi kumkonda ndi mtima wanu wonse.
Chinsinsi ndi chachitatu.
Musaswe chikondi pa moyo. Nthaŵi zambiri makangano am'banja amachititsa mikangano komanso kupatukana. Choncho, sizolakwika kuti tisiyanitse ntchito zapakhomo pa chiyambi cha chiyanjano. Mwachitsanzo, mwamuna amataya zonyansa, ndipo mkazi amachotsa nyumbayo. Ngati onse awiri akugwira ntchito, aliyense ali ndi ufulu wopuma, kotero yesetsani kuthandizana. Komanso yang'anani zosokoneza - zipangizo zamakono zitha kuthetsa mikangano yanu ndikugwira ntchito yanu. Pambuyo pake, ndi nyimbo yamakono ya moyo popanda izo, ife tiri ngati opanda manja.
Chinsinsi chachinayi.
Thandizani mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu. Ngati ali ndi mavuto aliwonse kuntchito, ali m'mavuto kapena samangokhala ndi maganizo - yesetsani kumuthandizira ndikumuletsa, kumupatsa malangizo othandiza kapena kumuthandiza ndikumumvetsera. Ndipo khalidweli liyenera kukhala logwirizana. Chinsinsi cha chimwemwe chenicheni cha banja ndi chakuti munthu ayenera kumverera kuti popanda iye banja lake silingakhoze kupirira - izi zidzamulimbikitsa iye, ndipo adzachita zonse kuti okondedwa ake akhale osangalala komanso osangalala.
Chinsinsi chachisanu.
Ugwirizano. M'banjamo ndikofunika kukhala ndi zofunikanso, zokambirana za zokondweretsa. Yesetsani kugwiritsira ntchito nthawi yachindunji palimodzi, chitani zinthu zomwe mumakonda ndikukondana. Ngati simukugwirizana ndi izi, ndiye bwanji mukulenga banja?
Chinsinsi chachisanu ndi chimodzi.
Zafupika. Kugonana ndi chimodzi mwa zinthu zofunika kwambiri m'moyo wa banja, komanso nkofunika kuti musamvetse bwino. Pambuyo pake, patapita nthawi, ubale wapamtima pakati pa okwatirana umakhala wosasangalatsa komanso wokondweretsa, choncho umasuke kuyesera chinthu chatsopano kuti uwononge moyo wanu wa kugonana . Khalani okondwa!