"Ndikufuna kukhala chidontho!" - apa ndilo, kulira kosalamulirika kwa moyo wa msungwana wakukhumudwa. Nchifukwa chiyani akusowa? Chifukwa phula silifuna kukhala "moyo wabwino". Tiyeni tiwone - mkwiyo wa amuna, udindo wa "ndondomeko yachiwiri", onse mu timu ndi mu kampani ina iliyonse, khalidwe lofooka, limene zimakhala zovuta kuthetsa - zonsezi ndizosautsa! Ife tafika pa nthawi inayake, ife tiri pamapeto, kotero ife sitikufuna kukhala moyo, ine ndikufuna "mosiyana", ine ndikufuna kuti ndikhale wina_ine ndikufuna kuti ndikhale khungu! Ndipo ngati mukufuna, mukhoza kuyesa ...
Kukwanira kulibe malire
Amuna ngati bitch, ama Amazon akazi, olimba mtima, okwiya komanso okonda. Inde, amuna ngati ntchentche, koma osati amatsenga, "akuwonera" mwamuna ndipo motero, popepesa, kumumenya iye mwamakhalidwe.
Za momwe mungakhalire chidontho m'mabuku osiyanasiyana ndizambiri zamalangizo. Mabungwe ena amasiyana mosiyana pakati pa chikhalidwe cha amai, m'maganizo a amai, ndipo pali chidziwitso chodziwika pakati pawo. Kuthamanga sikutsatira lingaliro lotero, ndilopamwamba kuposa izi. Simungathe kunyoza amuna, chifukwa mwanjira iyi timachotsa ubongo wathu.
Momwe mungakhalire chidontho kwa mwamuna - funso lofanana ndilo limasokoneza, monga lamulo, iwo omwe pazifukwa zina samawamva amuna awo "mwamuna." Izi zimachitika pa msinkhu wosadziwika. Poyesa kuthetsa kusowa kwa "mwamuna" mwa mwamuna wake, mkaziyo alibe chotsalira, momwe angakhalire wotsimikizika, wodalirika kwambiri, wolimba komanso wopambana. Samalani, chifukwa:
- khalidwe ili lingayambitse "kusintha maudindo" m'banja lanu;
- mwamuna adzapita komwe amamverera ngati mwamuna, mutu wa banja.
Zidzakhala bwino ngati mutamuthandiza mwamuna wanu, mum'patse "njira yathanzi"
Momwe mungakhalire bulu weniweni komanso wopambana pa ntchito - funsoli lingakhale lothandiza kudodometsa iwo amene akufuna kupanga ntchito ndi kupambana. Kuoneka kosadabwitsa, kuzindikira bwino, udindo komanso kuthekera "pamutu" - zomwe abusa amapeza bwino. Ngati mukufuna kuti zinthu zizikuyenderani bwino, khalani okonzeka kuchitira nsanje anzako, chifukwa nthawi zonse mumakhala ndi chidwi komanso mwakonzeka kuti aliyense "apukuta mphuno." Dzifunseni nokha, pitirizani kudzikuza, muwerenge zambiri, ndi kulemekeza kuti musalephereke ndipo musayambe mantha ndi mantha - kukhala chidontho ndi luso weniweni.