Zimakhala zovuta kukonda munthu amene sadziwa bwino. Pankhaniyi, amayi ambiri amafuna kudziwa momwe angadzikakamizire kuti aiwale mwamuna kukhala mosangalala. Izi ziyenera kuchitika pamene ubale umatha, ndipo kumverera kumakhalabe. Mwamwayi, koma palibe batani pa thupi la munthu lomwe lingalole kutiiwala chikondi . Yankho lokhalo lolondola ndilo kupempha malangizo kwa katswiri wa zamaganizo.
Mungaiwale bwanji munthu?
Ngati palibe kulumikizana, ndiye kuti kulibe ntchito yopewera chiyanjano, chifukwa zimangobweretsa ululu. Ndi bwino kukhala woonamtima ndi inu nokha ndikuzindikira kuti muyenera kusunthira, ndipo zosagwirizana ndizomwe mukuyenera kuti mutenge.
Malangizo a zamaganizo momwe angaiwale munthu:
- Ganizirani kokha pa zovuta za maonekedwe ndi khalidwe. Munthu aliyense ali ndi zolakwika ndi zinthu zomwe sizilandiridwa ndipo ngakhale amakwiyitsa ena. Ndichofunika kuti azindikire pa chinthu chopembedzedwa ndi kuganizira za njirayi.
- Kulankhula za momwe mungaiwale munthu kwamuyaya, ndi bwino kupereka malangizo othandiza - nthawi zambiri kusiya malo anu otonthoza, kuyankhulana ndi abwenzi ndikukumana ndi anthu atsopano. Pa nthawi izi ndizofunika kumvomereza ndikuwonekeratu.
- Chotsani zinthu zonse zomwe zikukukumbutsani za yemwe kale anali wokonda. Sikoyenera kutaya zinthu zokha, komanso kuchotsa mauthenga omwe anthu ambiri amawawerenganso, akuzunzidwa chifukwa cha nkhawa . Chotsani zammbuyo kuti mupange malo atsopano.
- Kawirikawiri akatswiri a maganizo, pokambirana za momwe mungaiwale munthu amene mumamukonda, mumalangizidwa kuti mupeze bizinesi nokha yomwe idzatenga nthawi yanu yonse ndi maganizo anu. Pokhala nokha, akazi amalowa m'maganizo ndikukumana nawo. Zikomo Mulungu, pali maphunziro ochulukirapo, mpaka
Mwachitsanzo, zingakhale zosangalatsa, kuyang'ana mafilimu, kuyenda, kuphunzira zinenero, ndi zina zotero. - Kupeza momwe mungaiwale munthu amene adakugwetsani inu, ndiyenera kutchula malangizo ena a akatswiri a maganizo - kutulutsa maganizo. Ndikofunika kulankhula ndi kufuula, ndikuchita kamodzi. Mwamsanga pambuyo pa izi, mukhoza kumverera bwino. Kuphatikizanso, munthu wapafupi yemwe adzachita nawo "chovala" adzatha kuthandizira ndi kupereka malangizo othandiza.
Kumbukirani kuti m'tsogolomu padzakhala zambiri zatsopano zomwe zimakhala bwino, malingaliro ndi malingaliro, ndipo zakale zikuyenera kusiya.