Zimakhala zopweteka nthawi zonse kupulumuka kusintha kwa wokondedwa ndi wokondedwa. Kwenikweni, chiwonongeko chimapezeka mwadzidzidzi osati nthawi zonse. Nkhaniyi idzawathandiza mkazi wonyenga kuti ayankhe funso limene limamuvutitsa - choti achite ngati mwamunayo asintha kuti asataya ulemu ndikupulumutsa banja.
Dzulo kunali madzulo abwino, panthawi yomwe ndondomeko zinapangidwira, momwe angagwiritsire ntchito mapeto a sabata, chirichonse chinali monga mwachizoloŵezi, ndipo lero misozi imakhala ikuyenda, nyengo yoopsya yomwe nthawi ndi nthawi imalowetsedwa ndi chikhalidwe ndi nkhanza. Mutu wanga pali mafunso nthawi zonse: "Ziri bwanji?", "Chifukwa chiyani mwamuna anasintha?". Pambuyo podziwa za kuperekedwa kwa mwamuna wake, mkazi aliyense nthawi yomweyo amataya mwayi kuti awone bwinobwino mkhalidwewo.
Kupyolera mu kukhumudwa, kupweteka, kukwiya, mumakhalabe kumvetsetsa kuti mumakonda mwamuna wanu ndipo simukufuna kumusiya, ngakhale kuti muli ndi mphamvu yeniyeni? Pachifukwa ichi, mungathe kuchita, monga momwe zilili m'magazini onse a amayi: dzipangeni nokha, mugulitse zovala zamasewero, komanso mukhale okongola kwambiri, kotero kuti amvetse mtundu wa diamondi omwe amakhala nawo.
Ambiri mwa amayi, ataphunzira za kuperekedwa kwa wokondedwa wawo, samvetsetsa choti achite ngati mwamuna akusintha ndipo potsiriza amasankha machenjerero otero: nthawi zonse amamuponyera mumanyazi, amafuna kuthetsa chiyanjano, kuyang'ana makalata, foni, zovala, kukonzekera madzulo onse kufunsa ndi zina zotero. Osati chifukwa chakuti akukonzekera zochita, koma chifukwa sangathe. Zonsezi sizingatheke kuthandizira kuyankha funso - chifukwa chake mwamuna amasintha, ndipo pamapeto pake amabwerera kapena kusunga, koma m'malo mwake, amachititsa kubwerera, adzakumverani chisoni ndi kunyansidwa. Ndipo inunso mutembenuka kuchoka kwa mkazi wokwanira kupita ku mkazi wodzitama ndi milomo yanjenjemera ndi maso ofiira.
Chovuta kwambiri ndi khalidwe loyenera pambuyo pozindikira kuti akuchita chiwembu. Makamaka si zophweka, ngati mwadzidzidzi mwamunayo adasintha iwe pamene uli ndi mimba. Komabe, poyesedwa, mudzakhala ndi mwayi wobwezera wokondedwa wanu. Choncho, malamulo oyambirira.
Musamayerekeze kuti ndinu wozunzidwa
Nthawi zambiri timayesetsa kuti tigwirizane ngati mwamuna akusintha, koma sataya. Komanso, panali chifukwa chachikulu chodzidandaulira nokha - kusakhulupirika kwa mwamuna wake! Kumbukirani kuti njira iyi siilondola, ngati mukufuna kubwereranso mwamuna wanu, chifukwa nthawi zonse amadziimba mlandu yekha chifukwa cha zomwe adachita, sangalekerere kwa nthawi yayitali, ndipo nthawi zambiri adzapita kwa yemwe sakonda zamatsenga ndi misonzi.
Musayang'ane umboni watsopano wosakhulupirika kwa mwamuna wake
Ngati muli ndi chikhumbo chowerenga makalata ake, kapena kukwera mu foni yake, muyenera kuthana nayo nthawi yomweyo, chifukwa ndi owopsa ndipo idzachitika nthawi ndi nthawi. Mwinamwake mukuganiza kuti mudzamvetsa nthawi yotsatira yomwe mwamuna wanu akufuna kusintha, ndipo mudzadziwa choti muchite. Musanyengedwe nokha. Mwamuna akadzudzula zochita zako, ndiye kuti kudzimva kwake kumakhala kosautsa.
Musalowerere mu ubale wanu wa mbuye wanu ndi mwamuna wanu
Mulimonsemo, musayang'ane misonkhano ndi mbuye wa mwamuna wake, chifukwa izi sizidzabweretsa zotsatira zabwino. Kuonjezerapo, iye adzanena zonse za mwamuna wanu, amene adzamuthandiza pambuyo pake. Ndi bwino kusonkhanitsa zonse zokhudza mbuye wanu ndikudziwe zomwe zinachitikazo.
Sikoyenera kubwezera mmbuyo momwemo
Amayi ambiri akufunafuna yankho la funso - choti achite ngati mwamuna asintha, asankhe kuti ngati akum'chitira nsanje, adzabwezeretsa. Yesetsani kusonyeza kuti izi siziri choncho. Podzipangira chisankho choterocho, mumapatsa mwamuna wanu kumvetsetsa kuti simusamala kwambiri za kuperekedwa kwake, ndipo simunasangalale kudzikondweretsa nokha kumbali. Musati mukulangize kuikapo chiopse chotero.
Sungani moyo wanu
Mwinamwake mwamvapo za chiphunzitso ichi nthawi zambiri, chifukwa mwamuna wanu akunyenga pa inu, ndiye chinachake chikulakwika ndi inu. Ganizirani mosamala, ndi liti pamene munasangalalira ndi mwamuna wanu mu njira yogonana, kukonzekera masewera achikondi kapena kuvina kuvina? Ndi nthawi yoti mupeze nthawi yomwe zolakwitsa zinapangidwira, ndipo nkofunika kuwongolera. Ndiye funso la choti achite ngati mwamuna asintha, lidzasanduka lokhalokha.
Ziribe kanthu momwe zimakhalira zopweteka ponyenga wokondedwa, nthawi zonse muyenera kukhala mkazi wanzeru ndi wamphamvu, makamaka ngati mukuyesera kusunga banja.