Triangle ya Carpman

Katatu wa Carpman ndi chitsanzo cha khalidwe la anthu, ndi mtundu wa ndende zomwe munthu angayang'ane pazovuta zomwe zimatichitikira tsiku ndi tsiku. Mikangano ikhoza kukhala ndi khalidwe losiyana ndi laling'ono, likhoza kukhala lolunjika kapena lobisika. Chitsanzo cha triangle cha Carpman chidzatithandiza kumvetsa zonse.

Mtundu wodabwitsa wa Karpman

Monga katatu onse, katatu ya Carpman ili ndi makangolo atatu, omwe amatanthauza mitundu itatu yolumikizana. Anthu ambiri sazindikira kuti ali ndi masewero olimbitsa thupi , omwe amasintha nthawi zonse, omwe amalandira mphamvu komanso kuti sangakwanitse kuthetsa mavuto awo. Otsatira mu triangle zitatu za Carpman ndi awa:

1. Otsata (P). Ntchito yosavuta komanso yosangalatsa kwambiri. Otsatira, monga lamulo, sazindikira ngakhale kuti iye ndi wotero, sazindikira kuti "chifukwa cha kulakwitsa kwake" moyo wa munthu ukhoza kuwonongedwa.
2. Nsembe (F). Wopweteka aliyense amatsimikiza kuti ndi wosalakwa, nthawi zonse amamasulira munthu wina mlandu, osadziŵa kuti muzu wa mavuto ake onse ndizolakwika - zolakwika za kunja. Mudziko lathu palibe chabwino ndi choipa, pali chowonadi chokha kwa ichi kapena chochitikacho.
3. Wopulumutsa (C). Wopulumutsa ndi amene yemwe adzalangidwa posachedwa kapena pambuyo pake ayamba kusokoneza, panthawi imene iye mwiniyo adzasintha. Kunena zoona, ngati sichikanakhala kwa wopulumutsika, mwina katatu sichidzakhalansopo, chifukwa ngati iye sanafike pa nthawi yoyenera kwa wozunzidwa, mwinamwake akanaiwala za chisoni chake ndipo akanakhala ndi moyo wambiri, koma nthawi zonse amatha kuchita "nthawi".

N'zosadabwitsa kuti onsewa akumasintha nthawi zonse. Kuti timvetse bwino momwe katatu ya Carpman imagwirira ntchito ndi momwe tingapeŵere kuchita nawo masewerawa, tiyeni tiyang'ane pazithunzi zitatu zodabwitsa za Carpman:

1. Old Psychiatrist (P) - Wogula (F) - Watsopano Psychiatrist (C).
2. Mkazi (P) - Mwamuna (F) - Mkazi (C).
3. Mwamuna (P) - Mkazi (F) - Bwenzi la Mkazi (C).

Monga lamulo, anthu amtundu wotere amakhala omangika kwa nthawi yaitali, akusintha maudindo nthawi zonse. Chotsatira chake, iwo samathetsa vutoli, koma amakhala ndi maganizo omwe amachititsa kuti anthu azikhala ndi moyo wosangalatsa.

Katatu wa Carpman momwe angatulukire?

Kuti mupeze njira yotulukira pa katatu, muyenera kutsatira malangizo awa:

1. Choyamba, muyenera kudziwa kuti mukuchita nawo, ndikuwona momwe mumataya ntchito iliyonse.
2. Sinthani khalidwe lawo, ayambe kuchita mogwirizana ndi msinkhu wawo ndi msinkhu wawo (mwanayo ali wololera - monga wamkulu, wamkulu - mwanzeru komanso moyenera - monga bambo ndi mayi).
3. Kusiya kukhala "zombie", yambani kukhala ndi makhalidwe ngati munthu wamoyo wamba. Mu ubale kukhazikitsa mtunda wabwino, ndi anthu apamtima kuti akhalebe pachibwenzi, kulemekeza ndi kuwakonda.

Mukhoza kuphunzira njira zomwe ndikuwonetsera momwe katatu ya Carpman yotulutsa:

• Yang'anani mwachikondi pa zomwe mwasewera kapena izi. Ndipo moona kumuseka iye;
• yesetsani kufunafuna "phindu" muzochitika zilizonse ndikudzipangira nokha njira yowonongeka komanso yokwanira yofanana pindulitsani kuchotsa;
• kumva thupi lanu, kuwongolera mapewa anu, kuwongolera, kutenga mpweya wakuya ndi kumwetulira. Mu mau, mvetserani mphamvu zanu ndipo mupeze mphamvu kuti mutuluke mumtanda wonyansa.

Ndipotu, Triangle ya Carpman ndi chida chabwino kwambiri chomwe mungathe kutaya mosavuta ntchito ya zomwe zikuchitika m'moyo wanu. Chitsanzochi chimalola munthu kukhala ndi mutu kuti alowe m'maganizo osiyanasiyana, ndikuiwala kuti ali ndi chiyanjano ndi zonse zomwe zimamuchitikira. Konzani vuto ndikupeza njira yotulukira "bwalo" lotsekedwa, mukhoza kuzindikira ndi kusinkhasinkha zonsezi.