Sakramenti ya ukwati mu Orthodoxy imakhala ndi tanthauzo lalikulu. Malingana ndi Baibulo, ukwati ndi wofunikira osati kupitilira banja, koma uyeneranso kukhala mgwirizano wa thupi ndi mzimu, kukhala ndi mgwirizano komanso kuthandizana. Moyo wokwatirana ndi wofunikira kwambiri m'Baibulo, ukwati umatanthauza maganizo a Mulungu kwa anthu, Yesu Khristu ku mpingo. Malingana ndi machitidwe a mpingo, ukwati wa chikhristu sungatheke.
Sakramenti ya ukwati wa Orthodox
Ngati banja lasankha kulembetsa mgwirizano wawo osati kudziko lawo, komanso kwa Wamphamvuyonse, ndiye kuti amatha kulembetsa ukwati wauzimu ndi kuchita mwambo waukwati . Ndikofunika kuzindikira kuti ukwati sungakhale chikhalidwe chokha, koma chisankho chogwirizana. Mabanja ayenera kukumbukira kuti ukwati wa mpingo si wophweka. Choncho, ganizirani mofatsa ngati muli okonzeka kutero.
Sakramenti ya ukwati imatanthauza kukonzekera. Choyamba, sankhani tsikulo, chifukwa malinga ndi zolemba za Tchalitchi cha Orthodox, ukwatiwo suchitika masiku ena - choncho, ndi bwino kufotokozera mu Kachisi ngati mutakwatirana pa tsiku losankhidwa. Masabata angapo musanafike tsiku lofunsidwa, sankhani kuti mu mpingo uti mudzakwatirana ndi banja lanu pamaso pa Wam'mwambamwamba. Onetsetsani kuti mubwere kudzafunsidwa ndi wansembe - adzakuuzani malamulo omwe alipo mu Kachisi uyu, momwe sakramenti ya Ukwati idzachitikira, momwe alendo adzakhaliremo, kodi mtengo wa msonkhanowu ndi wotani?
Samalani zovala zaukwati: ayenera kukhala odzichepetsa ndikuwonetsera chiyero ndi kudzichepetsa. Mkwatibwi ayenera kukhala mu diresi loyera, ndi mutu ndi mapewa ataphimbidwa (izi zikhoza kukhala chophimba kapena mpango). Komanso, musanayambe muyenera kukonzekera mphete zogwiritsira ntchito - kawirikawiri zopangidwa ndi siliva, makandulo achikwati, mipango inayi kwa iwo, thaulo, komanso zizindikiro za Namwali ndi Khristu Mpulumutsi. Kawirikawiri mukhoza kugula zokonzekera ukwati ku mabenchi.
Osowa mtendere amayenera kupita ku Liturgy kukayeretsedwa ku machimo awo, komanso ndikofunikira kuvomereza ndikulandira Mgonero. Zonsezi ndizofunikira kufotokozeratu pasadakhale nthumwi ya atsogoleri achipembedzo: wansembe alipo kuti ayankhule ndi kuyankha mafunso anu.
Kodi sakramenti ya ukwati?
Achinyamata amabwera ku Tchalitchi limodzi ndi alendo awo pambuyo pa ofesi yolembera, pamodzi ndi alendo. Pa nthawi yoikika, chiyambi cha liturgy chimayamba. Mwambo waukwati ukuchitika mu magawo awiri: kupha ndiyeno ukwati wokha. Dikoni amakonzekera kuvala ndi mphete zaukwati, ndipo wansembe amapatsa mkwati ndi mkwatibwi kandulo yaukwati. Pambuyo pake, wansembeyo, atagwira mkwati ndi mkwatibwi pamaso pa okwatiranawo, akuwapempha kuti asinthe nawo katatu. Mkwatibwi ndi mkwatibwi katatu amasuntha mphetezo, ndipo kenako aliyense amasunga yekha. Panthawiyi okwatiranawo amakhala amodzi.
Ndiye pakubwera nthawi yofunikira kwambiri ya sakramenti ya ukwati: wansembe amatenga korona wa mkwati ndikuchita mtanda wa mtanda ndi korona uyu. Mkwati akupsyopsyona fano la Mpulumutsi, lomwe limamangirizidwa ku korona. Wansembe amaika korona pamutu wa mkazi wam'tsogolo. Kuwonjezera apo wansembe amachita mwambo womwewo ndi mkwatibwi, kusiyana kokha ndiko kuti pa korona wake pali chithunzi ndi fano la Namwaliyo, yemwe mkwatibwiyo ampsompsona. Kawirikawiri korona pamwamba pa mutu wa mkwatibwi umakhala ndi mboni.
Mwambo uwu wa kuika korona umaimira kuti mwamuna ndi mkazi ndi amzake - mfumu ndi mfumukazi.
Pambuyo pake, wansembe amatsitsa chikho ndi Cahors ndikupereka kwa okwatiranawo. Iwo amasinthasintha kutenga zitatu zapopu kuchokera ku icho, chikho chimodzi chikuimira chofanana chomwe chimagwirizana. Ndiye wansembe amalumikiza dzanja lamanja la mkwati ndi dzanja lamanja la mkwatibwi. Amadutsa katatu kuzungulira fanizo - tsopano iwo amayenda nthawi zonse.
Mnyamata akutsogolera kuzipata zachifumu, kumene mkwati akupsompsona chifaniziro cha Khristu Mpulumutsi, ndipo mkwatibwi - chizindikiro cha amayi a Mulungu, ndiye amasintha. Wansembe amapereka mtanda, umene mkwati ndi mkwatibwi akupsompsona. Pambuyo pake amatumizidwa zizindikiro ziwiri - Theotokos Wopatulikitsa ndi Khristu Mpulumutsi. Pemphero likuwerengedwa. Pambuyo pake, mwambo waukwati umatengedwa kuti uli wathunthu, okwatiranawo amakhala banja pamaso pa Wam'mwambamwamba.