Asexuality

Zikuwoneka kuti m'masiku athu ano, mavuto a chiwerewere ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, amuna ndi akazi okhaokha, ndi anthu omwe amadziwika okha ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha amamveka komanso akuphunzira ndi asayansi pamodzi ndi ena. Koma pali chiwonetsero chimodzi chodziwika bwino chokhudzana ndi chilakolako cha kugonana, kapena kuti, kusowa kwake kwa "chigololo". Musanapitirize kulingalira za funso lachigololo, ndi kofunika kufotokozera kufunikira kwa lingaliro ili. Kugonana kwa amuna okhaokha ndizosavuta kugonana ndi ena akuluakulu. Asayansi ochokera ku United States akhala akuphunzira zodabwitsa izi kuyambira m'ma 1950. Masiku ano zimadziwika kuti anthu okalamba alibe zolepheretsa kuti akule bwino, samangofuna kugonana.

Kugonana kwa Asexualality

Ngati muli ndi kukayikira za zofuna zogonana ndi mnzanuyo, mudzaperekedwe ndi mayeso ochepa a mafunso 8 osavuta, ndikuyankhidwa kuti muwone ngati mukuyenera kudziganizira nokha kapena wokondedwa wanu mu chigololo. Mafunso otsatirawa ayankhidwe kuti "inde" kapena "ayi", "palibe".

1. Kodi kugonana kwa inu ndi mtundu wa "wonyansa" kapena lingaliro loipa?
2. Kodi mukufunikira, nthawi ndi nthawi, kugonana ndi zosowa zanu?
3. Kodi mukuganiza kuti ubale weniweni pakati pa zibwenzi ndizotheka kokha ngati pali chiyanjano pakati pawo?
4. Kodi mwakumanapo, pamene panalibe chikhumbo chofuna kumudziwa mnzanuyo, kuti mugwirizane nawo pamodzi?
5. Kodi kusakhala kwathunthu kwa moyo wapamtima kumakusokonezani?
6. Kugonana, ichi ndi chigawo chofunikira ndi chofunikira cha ubale weniweni pakati pa okondedwa?
7. Kodi nthawi zambiri mumafuna kukhudzika mtima kwa munthu amene amakukondani?
8. Kodi pali vuto lililonse m'maganizo ndi m'maganizo chifukwa cha kusowa kwa kugonana kwa nthawi yaitali?

Ngati kwa onse mafunso 2 mpaka 8, yankho lanu linali "ayi" kapena "palibe", ndiye muyenera kuganizira zomwe zinayambitsa vutoli. Yankho la funso nambala 1 lingasonyeze kuti momwe mwakulerera za moyo wa kugonana unakhudzidwa ndi kulera. Ngati yankho lanu kwa "Inde" ndilo "Inde" ndiye kuti kuthekera kwa chikhalidwe chogonana kumakhudzana ndi kugwirizanitsa maganizo ndi ntchito yokhudza kugonana yomwe inadza chifukwa cha "Soviet upbringing."

Asexuality - zimayambitsa ndi mankhwala

Monga kale, anthu omwe ali pachilumbachi ndi anthu omwe samakana mwadala kugonana, komanso samakopeka ndi kugonana. Amagulu opatsirana pogonana amakana kuganizira za chikhalidwe chawo, ngakhale kuti zochitika zake zingayambidwe ndi mavuto enieni a maganizo. Mtsikana akhoza kukhala wachiyanjano pakati pa anthu pambuyo pa kugwiriridwa kapena kupweteka kwambiri kuti asamwalire. Mwamuna akhoza kusintha kukhala osakanikirana pambuyo pa nthawi yoyamba yomwe anakhumudwitsidwa pogonana.

Kuchokera pamaganizo, kugonana ndi masewera achilengedwe a ziwalo zamkati, ndipo kupezeka kwake kwa nthawi yaitali kumayambitsa njira zowonjezera, zomwe zimakhudza thanzi la amayi.

Kuchokera pamalingaliro a maganizo, kusowa kwa kukhutira ndi kugonana, monga chifukwa chake, kumasulidwa kwa mahomoni a chimwemwe m'magazi, kumabweretsa kusintha kwa zida za dongosolo la manjenje. Ndiko kugwirizanitsa kuti amayi omwe ali ndi nthawi yambiri yosaoneka amakhala amanjenje komanso amdima.

Chithandizo cha matendawa molunjika chimadalira ngati asexual yokhayo imamva zovuta zonse zomwe zimagwirizana ndi malingaliro ake pa kugonana. Ngati palibe vuto ndipo moyo wanu uli wodzaza ndi malingaliro komanso opanda kugonana, ndiye dokotala sayenera kuyankhulana konse. Ngati simukuvutikira kukhala nawo, koma simungathe kugonjetsa malingaliro anu, muyenera kutembenukira kwa katswiri wamaganizo kapena wogonana.