Kugonana ndi makhalidwe omwe amachititsa chilakolako cha kugonana. Kugonana ndi chikhalidwe chimodzimodzi monga chiwerewere chomwecho, chifukwa chakuti nthawi yayitali, nyama zimakondana ndi momwe zimakhalira.
Kugonana ndi pheromones, kutalika kwa mkanjo ndi kuya kwa decollete, izi ndizosasunthika komanso zonyansa.
Psychology ya kugonana ndiyo gawo lofunika kwambiri pa sayansi iyi, chifukwa ndi kuchokera ku kukhutira kwa kugonana komwe makhalidwe ena onse amadalira. Oimira abambo tsiku ndi tsiku amatsenga pa nkhani ya kugonana kwa amuna ndi akazi, ngakhale kuti malingalirowa angasonyeze mwa njira yosayembekezereka.
Amuna achikulire
Kugonana pakati pa amuna ndi akazi kumakhala kovuta kwambiri: ngati wina "akuwuluka" maso ndi maso, ndiye kuti amayi ena amakopeka ndi amanyazi, chifukwa ndi osamvetsetseka.
Azimayi ali ochuluka kwambiri kuposa amuna omwe amamvetsera maonekedwe awo, ndipo kwa iwo sikofunikira kwambiri kuti "chovala" cha mtengo wake, choyamba, amadziyesa wokongola kapena ayi.
Theka lokongola laumunthu sizinthu zonyenga komanso zonyenga, monga akunena za izo. Inde, akazi amasangalala ndi ngongole za amuna ndi zero mu lesitilanti kapena mphatso zamtengo wapatali, koma chifukwa chakuti zimatsimikizira kuti munthuyu ndi wowolowa manja komanso wokonzeka kugwiritsa ntchito ndalama.
Amayi achikazi
Ponena za amai, malingaliro a chikazi ndi kugonana nthawi zonse amafanana komanso osatheka popanda wina ndi mnzake. Azimayi ali ndi chiwerewere chogonana, koma osakanikirana amakono omwe timakhalamo, amanyoza zithumwa zathu zonse zachirengedwe. Chifukwa chake, nkhani ya kukula kwa chiwerewere chogwilizana ndi mtengo wolimba. Ndipo pambuyo pa zonse, kugonana kwa amai ndiko, koposa zonse, kuzindikira za kukongola kwao, chikhalidwe , ulemu, manja, chirichonse chimene chimanena ndi kufuula kuti ndinu mkazi.