Momwe mungakonde amuna - psychology

Nthawi zambiri zimachitika kuti akazi oyenerera, okongoletsedwa bwino ndi okonzeka bwino, amakhala mu cafe pambali ndi maloto chabe oti adziwe munthu, ndipo makoswe osadziwika amadzizunguliridwa ndi anthu ambiri okondwa. Kuchokera pa zomwe zimadalira komanso momwe mungasangalatse amuna kuchokera pakuganiza za maganizo - m'nkhaniyi.

Kodi mungayambe bwanji kukonda amuna?

  1. Maonekedwe. . Ndikoyenera kunena mau awiri okhudza maonekedwe: mkazi ayenera kuyang'anitsitsa bwino ndi bwino. Musalole kuvala chovala chamtengo wapatali, koma maonekedwe akuyenera kuyankhulana , ndipo zonyansa sizichotsedwa.
  2. Kuwona mtima ndi kulephera . Monga momwe tikudziwira, anthu mwachibadwa ali atsogoleri, ogonjetsa ndi osaka, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti munthu ayenera kuchita moyenera - kuoneka wofooka, wopanda chitetezo ndi wofooka. Amuna amakopeka ndi amayi "mangy", ali ndi nkhope yooneka kuchokera pansi pa eyelashes, manja ofiira, mau amtendere, ndipo chofunika kwambiri - kumwetulira kosangalatsa. Chimene chimafuna kukondweretsa anthu, ndiyenera kuchiyesa pamaso pa galasilo. Poyambitsa kugwirizana kwa maso, ndikofunika kukhazikitsa ndi kulankhulana moona mtima, ndipo izi sizingatheke popanda chidwi chenicheni kwa munthuyo, ndi zomwe akunena.
  3. Kusadzikonda. Kusayanjanitsika, nsanje ndi kudzikuza zimayimbitsanso oimira mphamvu zogonana, koma kutentha m'maso ndi chikhumbo chomvetsera nthawi zonse pamtengo. Palibe chilichonse chimene sichidzaperekedwe kuti tidziwitse chomwe chidwicho sichiri chodzikonda. Kodi munthu sangakhale ndi ndalama zochuluka bwanji, ayenera kutsimikiza kuti amakonda mkaziyo yekha, osati monga chogwirizana nawo.
  4. Ulemu . Akazi olimba ndi okhutira amakopeka ndi amayi, kudzidalira, omwe sakhala pamtima pawo ndipo samaganiza kuti aliyense ali pa pepala ngati mwayi wokwatira . Kudzilemekeza nokha kudzalemekeza ndi iwo omwe ali pafupi, ndipo ichi ndi chifukwa china chokhala pafupi ndi mnzanuyo.

Iwo omwe ali ndi chidwi ndi momwe angadziwire ngati mkazi amakonda mwamuna ndi ofunika kuyembekezera momwe amamuyang'ana, amamuchitira, amachita. Amasamalira munthu yemwe amamukonda, amamuyamikira komanso amayesera kukhala wothandiza.