Ambiri okwatirana, akufuna kuyanjana moyo wawo wapamtima, ayamba kuyesa pabedi. Chifukwa cha ichi, pali mafunso ambiri okhudza zosiyana, zochitika ndi zovuta. Mmodzi wa nkhani zogwirizana kwambiri - ndi zopweteka kukhala ndi chilakolako cha kugonana komanso kugwiritsira ntchito kukondana. Masiku ano pali maofolomu ambiri pa intaneti omwe adapatulira ku nkhaniyi, choncho ndi bwino kuyang'ana mwatsatanetsatane.
Nchifukwa chiyani zimapweteka kukhala ndi kugonana kofanana?
Mgwirizano wapamtima uliwonse, kaya uli m'mimba kapena kugonana, umafuna kukonzekera. Choyamba, izi zimakhudza maganizo a maganizo. Onse awiri ayenera kukhala okonzeka kugonana, ndipo zonse ziyenera kulinganiziridwa mosamala. Kuti mumvetse chifukwa chake zimapweteka pa nthawi yogonana, muyenera kupempha maganizo a anthu omwe amachita zogonana. Pafupifupi onse, amanena kuti kupweteka kungabwere chifukwa cha kusadziŵa zambiri ndi maphunziro osakwanira. Ngati mukutsatira malamulo onse a nthawi yokonzekera komanso ndondomeko yokhayo, ndiye kuti pazigawo zoyamba zingatheke, kumangokhala kochepa pang'ono, komwe kumapita msanga. Ambiri akudandaula kuti zimapweteka kupita kuchimbudzi pambuyo pa kugonana kwa abambo. Akatswiri amanena kuti chilango cha kuuluka kwa mkwatibwi, komwe kumabweretsa kuvulala.
Kukonzekera kugonana kwa abambo
Azimayi ambiri amatsimikizira kuti kukhala ndi abambo oyesera nthawi yoyamba, anavulazidwa, koma m'tsogolomu, akuganizira zolakwa zawo zonse, sanamve bwino.
Malamulo ofunikira:
- Ndi bwino kugula mafuta apadera pasadakhale, omwe angapezeke mu pharmacy kapena sitolo yoyandikana. Chida ichi chingakuthandizeni kuchepetsa kupweteka, kusintha kagawo ndi kuchepetsa chiopsezo chovulaza. Sitikulimbikitsidwa kuti mutenge m'malo mwa mafutawa ndi kirimu kapena mafuta.
- Maola angapo usanayambe kuyandikira ndikufunika kupanga maema kuti achotse m'matumbo.
- Mukhozanso kugwiritsa ntchito makondomu, omwe ali ndi mafuta.
- Musanayambe ndondomekoyi, m'pofunikira kukhazikitsa kutsegula kwa ana. Kuti muchite izi, gwiritsani mafuta ndikuisisita.