Pamene anthu akuswa, monga lamulo, iwo akuyang'ana chifukwa chomwe chikuwonetsera kusiyana. Nthawi zina timaganiza za izi osati kale, koma pambuyo polekanitsa, makamaka ngati woyambitsayo anali winawake. Komabe, nthawi zambiri zimatipweteka kuvomereza kuti zifukwa zowonongeka kwa maubwenzi ndi banal ndipo, makamaka, zinali zodziwika. Ndipotu, kumayambiriro kwa chiyanjano izo zimawoneka kuti nkhani zonse zokhudzana ndi kulanda moyo, kusiyana kwa zipsyinjo, mavuto a zachuma - siziri za iwe. Inu mumadziwa bwino zovuta izi ndipo munali okonzeka. Ndipo komabe ^ iwo anathamangira ku chinachake. Nchifukwa chiyani anthu akuswa, bwanji okondedwa amasankha kusakalana wina ndi mzake ndikukhala moyo uliwonse ...
Ngati muwafunsanso anthu awiriwa kuti adziwe chiyani, ndiye kuti mumamva nkhani zosiyana kwambiri ngati kufotokozera. Koma nthawi zonse pamtima wogawanitsa bodza limodzi mwa zifukwa ziwiri:
- Kusagwirizana ndi ziyembekezero. Kugonana ndi munthu yemwe tifunika kuphunzira, ife, monga lamulo, timamupatsa makhalidwe enaake. Mwa njira, iye samasowa kuti azikhala nawo. Koma patapita nthawi, mutaphunzira munthu, pali "chinyengo" ndi kukhumudwa, zomwe zimapangitsa kuti banja likhale losokonezeka. Izi ndi zoona makamaka kwa amayi omwe safuna kudziyanjanitsa okha ndi kuti wokondedwa ali ndi ufulu wokhala yekha, ndikuyesa kusintha theka lachiwiri. Kulephera kwa ziyembekezo kumabweretsa mikangano pazifukwa zosiyanasiyana: zachuma, zachiwerewere, zapakhomo.
- Kulephera kulamulira maganizo. Nsanje, zowonjezera zodandaula - ndi kusakwanitsa kupereka njira yochotsera mphamvu zopanda mphamvu, izi zonse zimaphatikizapo ndi kuphulika mwa mawonekedwe ophulika opweteka a scandals ndi pick-nit. Panthawi imeneyi, anthu amavutika kuti adziwe bwino
zochitika, zoipa zimakula ngati snowball. Maganizo okhumudwitsa - chinthu chachilendo, ndipo zimachitika m'banja lililonse, koma kwinakwake utsi, mophiphiritsira, umatuluka kupyolera mu chimbudzi, pomwe mkati mwake umadzaza nyumba ...
Kukhumudwa, kudzipha, kapena kunyoza kwakukulu kuposa chikondi, kwatsogolera banja lanu kumsewu awiri, ndikofunika kumvetsetsa bwino momwe mungakhalire ndi munthu amene anali wokondedwa kwa inu. Muyenera kudzilemekeza nokha pamene mwasankha, zomwe zikutanthauza - ndi theka, zomwe mwadzidzidzi sizinali zanu. Yesani kumvetsetsa nokha ndi iye. Khululukirani kudula mutu wa umbilical ndi kusayanjanitsika. Ndikukuthokozani chifukwa cha zomwe zinakuchitikirani, ndikukhumba inu nonse chimwemwe ...