... Ndipo anasiya-anakhala!
Ndipo adalonjeza kuti sadzachoka.
Iye ankalakalaka kale,
sangathe kuiwala ...
Zodziwika bwino? Chodandaula chachikulu, funso la momwe mungabwerere munthu wokondedwayo sichiposa aliyense wa atsikanawo. Komabe, nthawi zambiri amadandaula ndi okhwima mokwanira, amayi omwe amadzidalira komanso odzidalira. Ndipo onse chifukwa, monga momwe kalasi yoyamba imanenera, zaka zonse zimagonjera chikondi. Tiyeni tiyesetse kumvetsetsa pang'onopang'ono funso ili: "Ndingachite chiyani kuti ndibwezere wokondedwa wanga?"
Kodi n'zotheka kubwereranso wokondedwa wanu?
N'zotheka kubwezeretsa, koma nkofunikira? N'chifukwa chiyani muyenera kubwezeretsa? Kodi munthu uyu ndi wokondedwa ndipo amayenera chikondi chanu? Kodi amakukondani? (Ngati simukukonda, ndiye kuti sizingatheke kuti ubale wanu udzathera momwe mukufunira.) Ngati mwapeza mayankho ku mafunso onse, nthawi zambiri, ali ndi vuto, ndi nthawi yotsikira ku bizinesi ndikuyang'ana njira yobwererera.
Pamene akunena: "Wedges wedges ndi wedge". Mwinamwake, mwa kulingalira chifukwa chimene mukulekanitsira, mumvetsetsa momwe mungabwezerere wokondedwa wanu. Ngati muli ndi mlandu wosakhala pamodzi, yesetsani kufunsa chikhululuko. Kupepesa si kophweka, koma mwa chikondi, njira zonse ndi zabwino. Ndipo kumbukirani: palibe chochititsa manyazi kuti sitepe yoyamba imapangidwa ndi mtsikana, ndi "nkhani za agogo aakazi"! Chirichonse chiri m'manja mwanu. Koma musakhale okhwima kwambiri, simukuyenera kutcha "poyamba" maminiti 10, penyani pakhomo ndikudzaza ndi misonzi. Khulupirirani ine, izi zidzakutsutsa kwambiri. Ndipo iye sadzangobwerera kokha, koma adzayesera kukupewa iwe 10 njira!
Momwe mungabwerere wokondedwa wanu - uphungu wa katswiri wa zamaganizo
Wopambana, mwa lingaliro langa, malangizo othandiza, kumbukirani momwe mudakondana ndi mnyamata. Kumbukirani zomwe munali ngati mutakumana, ndipo anayamba kukuyambitsani. Anakupatsani bwanji maluwa ndipo sakanatha kutopa madzulo onse kuti ndikuuzeni inu zoyamikira. Ndiwowo ndipo kumbukirani momveka bwino. Kodi iye ankakonda chiyani za iwe? Kodi ndi maonekedwe otani ndi maonekedwe omwe adaimba? Kodi mwasintha kuyambira pamenepo? Ndikofunika kukhala chimodzimodzi ndi kukondana naye mobwerezabwereza! N'zotheka, muyenera kuyesa!
Nanga bwanji ngati simukuchita chilichonse? Izi zikutanthauza, kuchita, ndithudi, koma kupanga chinyengo chakuti chiyambicho chimachokera kwa iye? Kodi simukumvetsa? Yang'anani. Amuna ndi ofunikira kwambiri, ndipo amafunika kufunafuna mkazi, ndipo sizosangalatsa pamene agwera m'manja mwake. Mudzakhalanso ofanana, monga momwe alangizi a maganizo amalangizira, ndipo mudzawonetsera moyo wosangalala ndi munthu wodzidalira. Izi ndizo zomwe akuyenera kukuwonani pamene mukupezeka pamsewu.
Mmodzi wa abwenzi anga, kuti abwerere wokondedwa wake, anaganiza zobwezera ndi kumuwonetsa yemwe anamwalira, ndi momwe amuna ena amamusamalirira. Anamuitanira ku msonkhano wachikondi mu cafe, ndipo iye anabwera ndi mnyamata wina. Ndipo mukuganiza bwanji? Analola wokondedwa wake kudzipatulira yekha, ndipo patapita chaka anakwatira! Kuposa momwe simukufunira, mungabwezere bwanji wokondedwa wanu? Koma muyenera kukhala osamalitsa, mwinamwake "anu", pambuyo pa zochitika zoterezi, adzatayika kwamuyaya.
Nthawi imodzi yokha palibe mwayi kuti wokondedwa wanu abwerere - ngati atayanjana ndi mkazi wina. Ndiye, kuti musapange komanso osapanga, mwayi wanu ndi wofanana ndi zero. Koma ndinu olimba, mukhoza kupirira! Ndipo, mwinamwake, adzadandaula kwambiri tsiku lina kuti sali pafupi ndi inu!