Kumva ululu, mwinamwake, ndiwopambana komanso wovuta kwambiri mitundu yonse ya ululu. Mapiritsi amathandiza ndi ululu wamthupi, ndipo ngakhale mphamvu zowononga kwambiri satha kuthetsa ululu wa uzimu, ndiye chifukwa chake amanena kuti ululu wa m'maganizo umaposa ululu. Kuwonjezera apo, kayiwala za vuto laumunthu nthawi zambiri zosavuta kusiyana ndi zauzimu, maganizo. Zimaphuka pang'onopang'ono, pang'onopang'ono, ndipo sizimapatsa mwayi uliwonse kuiwala masiku oyambirira.
Masautso aakulu
Ululu wa m'maganizo ndi wosiyana kwambiri ndi thupi lake. Choyamba, pambuyo pa chochitika chochititsa mantha, pakubwera mtundu wamagazi ndi kuzindikira kuti zomwe zinachitika sizinachitike, ndipo pokhapokha, pamene njira yoteteza chitetezo imatha, ululu umamuphimba munthuyo.
Komanso, cholinga cha maganizo chingathe kuwonjezereka mphamvu pamene munthu akukumana ndi zikumbutso za zochitika zoopsa. Pali malingaliro akuti zinthu zangoyamba kuchitika, zamphamvu kwambiri ndikumverera kowawa. Kodi mungathetse bwanji vutoli, ngati chilichonse chikumukumbutsa ...? Pankhani iyi, ndizovuta kwambiri kuthana nazo.
Poganizira momwe angachepetsere ululu wamaganizo, anthu ambiri amapindula kwambiri pamoyo, zomwe zimalola zochitika zochepa zowawa, zoopsa zaunyamata kapena zochititsa manyazi. Maofesi ambiri, mantha amachokera muubwana kapena kuyambira msinkhu, chifukwa ana ali achiwawa ndipo samvetsa momwe angapweteke munthu komanso amakhudza moyo wake wamtsogolo mwa mawu achipongwe komanso mtima wochititsa manyazi.
Pali lingaliro lakuti anthu omwe anakhumudwitsidwa muunyamata amakonda kukhala apolisi kapena aphunzitsi, motero amasewera mkhalidwewo mwa njira yawoyawo. Komabe, nthawi zambiri, ngakhale kukhazikitsidwa kwa moyo wabwino sikungathandize munthu pazochitika zotere kuti athe kuchiritsa maganizo.
Kodi mungatani kuti mupirire matendawa?
Tsoka ilo, ngakhale m'zaka zathu zamakono apamwamba, anthu sanabwerere ndi mankhwala okhumudwa. Pali mankhwala ambiri odziteteza maganizo, komabe angawathandize bwanji kupweteka maganizo? Mankhwala amamuponyera iye kwa kanthawi, koma palibe. Iwo sangathe kuchotsa malingaliro kapena kuwongolera zammbuyo.
M'midzi, alonda angakupatseni chiwembu kuchokera ku ululu wa moyo, koma njirayi ndi matsenga, zomwe zimatanthauzanso kachilendo, ndipo zotsatira zake sizitsimikiziridwa. Si aliyense amene amaloledwa kuwerenga chiwembucho kuti chigwire ntchito.
M'maganizo a masiku ano, pali njira zowonetsera momwe angachotsere ululu wa m'maganizo. Mmodzi wa iwo ndi kuloweza malingaliro. Kuti muchite izi, muyenera kukhala payekha, kulingalira, kumbukirani zowawa, ndikuziikapo ndi zina. Tangoganizani kuti simunayambe mwakumana ndi munthu amene akukuvutitsani, m'malo mwake mumagwira munthu wina yemwe amakonda komanso amakulemekezani. Wanu
Ndiye, kwa kanthawi, yesetsani kuchoka pa izo palimodzi, kotero kuti mkhalidwe ndi kulowezera mwaiwalika, ndipo zosanjikiza zomwe munapanga zimagwirizana mosamalitsa mu kukumbukira kwanu. Anthu ambiri omwe ali ochimwa omwe amachimwa amadziwa njirayi: amatsutsa zowonongeka mobwerezabwereza kuti ayambe kukhulupirira. Ndi zotsatira izi zomwe tifunikira kukwaniritsa chifukwa cha zomwe timachita, zomwe zidzakuthandizani kuchiza mtima wanu ndikupita patsogolo ndi mutu wanu wokhazikika.