Pamoyo wonse, anthu akutsatiridwa ndi zizindikiro zosiyanasiyana ndi zozizwitsa zam'tsogolo , koma si aliyense amene angawazindikire, mosiyanitsa moyenera.
Momwe mungazindikire zizindikiro za tsogolo?
Zizindikiro izi, zomwe zimatumizidwa kwa ife kuchokera pamwamba, zikhoza kuwonetsa matenda, kuchenjeza za zochitika zilizonse, ndi zina zotero. Mauthenga obwereza angapezeke ngati mawonekedwe, malingaliro osafotokoza, zochitika zosiyanasiyana, komanso ngakhale zochitika zobisika.
Kotero, mumaphunzira bwanji kuzindikira zizindikiro za tsogolo:
- Ngati mumakhala ndi chisangalalo komanso chosangalatsa chosadziwika ndi zomwe mukuchita, ndiye kuti mukuchita bwino, ndikuyenda mwanjira yoyenera. Ngati, mosiyana ndi zimenezo, mumakhala ndi mantha, zosokoneza, zovuta, mtundu wina wa mantha, ndibwino kuti musayese chiwonongeko, chizindikiro ichi chikunena kuti muyenera kusiya zolinga zanu ndipo musagwirizane ndi zomwe zimachititsa kuti mukhale ndi maganizo oipa.
- Anthu omwe amakumana nawo panjira yathu amakhalanso mauthenga a cholinga. Mvetserani mawu a mlendo, yesani kufufuza zomwe zanenedwa, chifukwa m'mawu amenewa mukhoza kubisika tanthauzo lachinsinsi.
- Ngati nthawi zambiri mumayamba kuganizira za munthu, ndiye kuti mumayenera kumumvetsera kapena kumuimbira foni, mwinamwake kuchokera kwa iye mudzaphunzira zambiri zofunika kwa inu, zomwe zidzakuthandizani posachedwa.
- Matenda angakhalenso zizindikiro zomwe zimachenjeza kuti ndi nthawi yopumula osati kuthamangira ku zolinga zanu.
- Maloto nthawi zonse amanyamula mtundu wina wa chidziwitso, chinthu chachikulu ndikutanthauzira molondola uthengawo. Lero, pali mabuku osiyanasiyana otota omwe angathe kuthandizira izi.
Momwe mungamudziwire munthu wanu ndi zizindikiro za tsogolo?
Aliyense wa ife ali ndi theka lachiwiri lotipangira ife, wina amakomana naye kamodzi, ndipo wina akhoza kukhala akufufuza moyo wake wonse.
Ndiye mumadziwa bwanji tsogolo lanu:
- Mukakumana ndi munthu, mudzakhumudwa chifukwa chakuti mumadziwana kwa moyo wanu wonse.
Inu mukudziwa zomwe iye ati anene kapena kuchita. - Pafupi ndi mwana wanu mumamva bwino kwambiri komanso mutatetezedwa.
- Ngati munthu akufunira iwe, ndithudi udzakhala ndi zolinga , zolinga , maloto. Ndili naye nthawi zonse, zomwe mungakambirane komanso zofunika kwambiri ndi iye mungathe kukhala chete.
- Pamene munthu wanu sali pafupi ndi inu simukupeza malo, chirichonse chimachokera m'manja mwanu, kuti musayambe kuchita zinthu zonse zowonongeka, maganizo amasintha, mumakonda mpweya ulibe kukhalapo kwa wokondedwa wanu.