Onetsetsani kuti ndinu wachikulire komanso wachikazi-kodi sikuti atsikana onse akulota? Kuti tigwire kuyang'ana koyang'ana kwa amuna ndipo komabe mukumverera okongola ndi oyitanidwa ...
Pazinthu zamakono zokha sizimapita amayi okongola, kuti akondweretse theka labwino. Koma, chomwe chiri chochititsa chidwi kwambiri, chimachokera si onse.
Nchifukwa chiyani izi zikuchitika, ndi momwe mungaphunzire kuti nthawi zonse muwoneke? Tiyeni tiyesere kumvetsa.
Zinsinsi za kugonana
Maphunziro ndi kafukufuku pankhaniyi adatsimikizira kuti kugonana ndi chinthu choposa kukongola. Zofunikira pa nkhope, zosalala ndi zolimba khungu, zokondedwa " 90-60-90 " sizikutsimikizirani kuti mupambana ndi abambo. Muzogonana zimabisika chithumwa chapadera ndi chinsinsi, kayendetsedwe kachisomo, kuthekera kolimbikitsa kuonetsa ulemu wawo. Ndipo chofunikira kwambiri - mphindi yosonyeza malingaliro.
Pambuyo pake, mkazi wanzeru amamvetsa bwino kuti kuvala mini yapamwamba kwambiri ndi khosi lamphepete mwazeng'onoting'ono ndi njira yabwino yolumikizira zosiyana. Kupezeka kokha kwa chinsinsi chinachake ndi kusatheka kulimbikitsa malingaliro a munthu, kumupangitsa mkazi kukhala wamaliseche pamaso pake.
Kotero, kodi mkazi wachigololo amawoneka bwanji, mwa lingaliro la theka lamphamvu la anthu:
- Osanenanso molunjika. Mukamaonetsa thupi lanu kuwonetseredwe ndi anthu, mwina simungalandire mbiri yochititsa manyazi, komanso kutaya chidwi chilichonse pa satellite. Kuvala kuti muwoneke sikumakhala kovuta ngati kumawonekera poyamba. Chinthu chachikulu ndikusunga moyenera ndikutsindika molondola ulemu. Mwachitsanzo, miyendo yabwino sayenera kubisika pansi pa msuketi wautali, koma pa nthawi yomweyi pamwambayo iyenera kukhala yodzichepetsa kwambiri. Kusankha bwino zovala kumakupangitsani kuti muwoneke okongola, onse odzala ndi atsikana.
- Zimadziwika kuti mawonekedwe osasangalatsa ndi owopsya. Choyamba, amuna amakhala ndi mantha osakwaniritsa zofunikira za kukongola. Choncho, kuti muyang'ane nthawi zonse, mkazi ayenera kugwiritsa ntchito pang'ono momwe angathere kukonzekera. Izi sizikutanthauza kuti mukuyenera kusiya njira zodzikongoletsera. Ayi, ndi bwino kupanga mapangidwe a masana ambiri achilengedwe, omwe angogogomeze chithumwa ndi chithumwa cha mwini wake.
- Monga lamulo, mtsikana wokongola nthawi zonse amawoneka bwino, lingaliro loti ukhondo ndi kusamalira thanzi lake sizinali zachilendo kwa iye.
- Kuwonjezera pamenepo, ntchito yofunikira pakupanga chiwonetsero cha kugonana imasewedwera ndi khalidwe labwino, kusasamala ndi chisomo cha kayendetsedwe kake, tawonani.
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