Ndizodziwika kuti anthu ozungulira inu akhoza "kudzutsa" okha, kudzikonda nokha, ndi mtima wonse ndi mofatsa! Masiku ano, mosiyana ndi zomwe zimayembekezeredwa, anthu ambiri amadzifunira okha, amachita nawo samoyedstvom ngakhale kudziwonongera. Mliri woterewu wosadzikonda wekha ukufotokozedwa ndi kupitirira malire, kutsatiridwa kwa miyezo yopanda pake, ndi mbali zonse: mwa maonekedwe, komanso mwa chitukuko cha maganizo, komanso mwa ndalama. Kawirikawiri kuchokera ku vuto limeneli amavutika ndi anthu osakwatiwa ali ana, kapena omwe omwe amakhala nawo pa moyo wawo "amamatira" osafunikira ndikusokoneza miyoyo yawo. Anthu oterewa sakudziwa momwe angadzikondere okha, kudzidalira kwawo kumadodometsedwa.
Kuvomereza ndi kudzikonda nokha sikovuta, koma kumafunika kuphunzira. Kumayambiriro kwa ulendo, munthu ayenera kumvetsetsa yekha, kumvetsetsa zomwe zimayambitsa kuzunzidwa kwake, ndipo pokhapokha "adzikonda" iye mwini ndi ena. Pali njira zambiri zapadera, zomwe mungathe kumvetsetsa momwe mungadzikondere nokha. Zochita zamaganizo, zogwira mtima kwambiri, tikukupatsani inu m'nkhani ino.
Ndipo tsopano tikupitilira ku zochitikazo
- Kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi kumachitika monga chonchi: khalani kutsogolo kwa galasi lalikulu, yang'anani kutsindika pamaganizidwe anu, kuyesa kuvomereza nokha, maonekedwe anu ngati zenizeni. Pambuyo pa mphindi zisanu, dzifunseni pagalasi kuti mumadzikonda nokha, momwe mumadzikondera nokha, ndikudandaula, ndikupembedzani. Dzichepetseni nokha ndi dzina kapena dziwonetseni nokha chikondi, mawu owoneka kwambiri. Chitani masewera olimbitsa thupi tsiku ndi tsiku, ndipo patapita masabata angapo, mudzamva momwe pang'onopang'ono malingaliro anu pa inu nokha ndikuyamba kusintha kwabwino.
- Pano pali zochitika zina, osagwira ntchito bwino, kuti azichita bwinoko, kuphatikizapo ndi yoyamba. Mwachitsanzo, masewera olimbitsa thupi nambala 1 m'mawa, ndikuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi 2 koloko madzulo. Choncho, tenga cholembera ndi pepala, gawani pepalayi mu magawo awiri ofanana. Mu theka lanu mumalembera mndandanda wa makhalidwe makumi asanu, abwino. Mu theka lina - makhalidwe onse ndi katundu omwe simukuzikonda nokha. Tsopano kuchokera pamtima, tulukani mawu onse ochokera mndandanda wachiwiri. Pofuna kupititsa patsogolo zotsatira, chotsani theka "chosasangalatsa" ndikuchiwotcha kapena kuchiponyera mumatope. Koma zonse zomwe zalembedwa mndandanda woyamba, werengani tsiku lililonse! Akatswiri a zamaganizo amalangiza kuti muwonjezere
khalidwe limodzi pamasiku atatu onse. - Zochita zolimbitsa thupi tsiku ndi tsiku zimasintha kusintha maganizo. Chirichonse chimene iwe umawona choipa mwa iwekha chiyenera kukhala malingaliro kukhala chosinthika! Mwachitsanzo, ngati mukuona kuti mukuchedwa, dzipatseni nokha chifukwa chokhala ndi zenizeni komanso zenizeni pazinthu zonse, ndi zina zotero. Kuti muwone bwino, mukhoza kutengera cholembera kachiwiri, kusintha makhalidwe anu mwa kulemba.
Ndizo zonse zomwe mumapereka, ndikuphunzitsa momwe mungadzikondere nokha, zomwe mukuchita pano zidzakuthandizani kuthetsa vuto lovuta.