Kodi mungamasulidwe bwanji?

Inde, kudzichepetsa ndikokongoletsa kwa msungwana uyu. Koma muzonse muyenera kudziwa malire. Ndizomveka bwino kuti mudziwe kusiyana pakati pa kudzichepetsa ndi zazhatosti, kutseka. Nthawi zambiri anthu amakopeka ndi anthu omwe amamasuka kulankhulana , saopa china chatsopano, motero, akuyaka moto. Anthu otere, ngati moto, pafupi ndi kumene mungatenthe. Zingatheke bwanji kukhala munthu wotere? Momwe mungakhalire omasuka, ngati kudzichepetsa kwanu kapena zolepheretsa maganizo anu sikukulolani kupita mopitirira malire omwe mumadzipanga nokha?

Momwe mungakhalire omasuka kulankhulana?

Poyambira ndi kofunikira kulankhula za momwe mungakhalire omasulidwa momveka bwino, tsiku ndi tsiku. Choyamba, popeza adakalibe zobvala, ndikofunikira kuyang'anira maonekedwe awo. Msungwana wodalirika, wodalirika sadzayenda mu jeans baggy ndi T-shirt yotambasula. Maonekedwe akuyenera kuwonetsa chikhalidwe cha mkati ndi maganizo. Izi ziyenera kuganiziridwa posankha zovala. Ndikofunika kumvetsetsa kuti zopinga zonse pamutu. Ngati pali mantha kwa anthu, musanayambe kumvetsera pagulu, ndiye kuti nkofunika kulimbana ndi mantha awa. Monga mukudziwira, mphero imatuluka. Pang'onopang'ono, mantha adzatha ndipo kumasulidwa kudzawonekera. Chinthu chachikulu: kudzilola nokha kupitako, kupeza ndalama zochepa zochepa, pamene, ndithudi, kusunga malire.

Kodi mungamasulidwe bwanji pabedi?

Chofunika kwambiri komanso chofunika kwa atsikana ambiri ndi momwe angakhalire osungulumwa. Makamaka kawirikawiri ndi vuto la manyazi kapena mtundu wina wa zazhatosti panthawi yogonana, asungwana omwe akuyamba kugonana. Chinthu chofunika kwambiri ndikukhulupilira mnzanuyo. Ngati izo ziri, ndiye mbali ya mkangoyo yachitidwa kale. M'zinthu zina zonse zimadalira kukhutira ndi kusangalala. Ndikofunika kumvetsetsa bwino kuti kugonana si chinthu chamanyazi kapena chochepa-ndiko kuwonetsa kwa malingaliro, komanso kubweretsa ndi kulandira zokoma, kumayendetsa ndi mphamvu.

Kuti amasulidwe pa nthawi yogonana, nkofunikanso kuti mukhale osatha. Sitiyenera kuganiza pa bedi za chakudya chamasana mawa kapena nthawi yoti mukhale pansi polemba lipoti lomwelo. Mavuto onsewa amatha kuyembekezera. N'kofunikanso kuti mutha kulingalira komanso musamachite mantha. Kuyesera chinachake chatsopano, mumasiyanitsa moyo wanu wa kugonana, komanso pang'onopang'ono kuchotsani maofesi anu onse.