Momwe mungakhalire wachikazi?

Mfundo yakuti ndinu mkazi sikutanthauza kuti mungathe kudziwika ndi chiganizo "chachikazi". Nthawi zina sitidziwa tokha komanso sitiganizira za chikhalidwe cha chikazi, ndi makhalidwe otani omwe amaimira abwenzi okondana nawo, kotero kuti amawoneka ngati azimayi.

Sayansiyi sizimavuta, komanso, ngakhale yosangalatsa, komanso momwe tingakhalire achikazi kwambiri tikambirana m'nkhaniyi.

Tikukutsatirani kuti muzitsatira ndondomeko yathu, ndikuonjezerani ndikuyikonza kuti ikhale yogwirizana ndi zofuna zanu.

Momwe mungakhalire msungwana wamkazi (mkazi)?

  1. Pangani chikalata chofunikira kuti mulembe: "Ndikufuna kukhala wachikazi chifukwa ..." ndikuwonetsani zifukwa ndi mapindu omwe mudzalandira mutagwiritsa ntchito fano lanu ndi khalidwe lanu.
  2. Kenaka kambiranani nokha za maudindo omwe mumakhala nawo pamoyo wanu. Komanso muziwongolera patsogolo. Ngati poyamba muli ndi ntchito ya akazi, monga abambo aakazi osiyanasiyana, ndiye kuti zidzakhala zovuta kwambiri kuti mukhale wachikazi, popeza muli ndi udindo woterewu, udindo wa munthu. Ngati maudindo monga abambo kapena amayi ndi ofunika kwambiri kwa inu, ndiye kuti zidzakhala zosavuta kwa inu, chifukwa ntchitoyi ndi yofunika kwambiri, ndipo ntchito yanu ndikungoyikira izi ndikulimbikitsa makhalidwe achikazi.
  3. Kuti mukwanitse cholinga chimenechi, muyenera kusankha chitsanzo. Ganizirani za yemwe angakhale chitsanzo chanu cha ukazi kwa inu, zingakhale ngati abwenzi enieni, nyenyezi zamakono kapena osangalatsa, ndipo chiwerengero chawo sichingatheke, mungasankhe mkazi mmodzi, kapena khumi - ziribe kanthu. Fufuzani makhalidwe awo akunja ndi akunja ndikupeza zoganiza, chifukwa, mwawona, ndizo zikhalidwe za chikazi. Ndipo lembani makhalidwe onsewa mu diary yanu.
  4. Pangani tsopano kulinganitsa makhalidwe awo ndi zomwe zalembedwa mu diary yanu. Ngati mukuganiza kuti mulibe ubwino wina, lembani pa pepala limodzi, ndi pafupi ndi chinthu chilichonse, onetsetsani zimene muyenera kuchita kuti mukhale ndi khalidweli. Mwachitsanzo, ngati mukuganiza kuti mtsikana ayenera kukhala wangwiro pamalankhula ndi mawu osalankhulana, ndipo nthawi zonse mumayankhula momasuka, mumasokonezeka komanso mumasokonezeka, ndiye njira yothetsera vuto lanu idzakhala yophunzitsidwa. Iwo sangakuphunzitseni zokongola komanso zomveka bwino, koma adzakuuzani za zizindikiro zosalankhula, zomwe nthawi zina zimalankhula kuposa mawu.
  5. Mverani munthu wanu. Ayi, sitimakhulupirira kuti muyenera kutsatira malamulo ake mosakayikira ndikuiwala kuti mawu anu akadalibe kanthu. Ingodzilola nokha kukhala wofooka ndi kumulola munthuyo akusamalireni inu. Tiyeni tipereke chitsanzo chophweka. Ngati muli ndi galasi m'nyumba mwanu, musagwirane ndi wrench, ndipo musathamangitse kuti muyang'ane mabala (ngati, ndithudi, vuto silikudzidzimutsa), koma muuzeni okondedwa anu za izo. Ndipo ngakhale atasankha kale ngati adzikonzekera yekha, kapena amachititsa kuti apulumuke. Pambuyo pake, ngati mutachitapo pa choyamba, ndiye kuti poyamba, mudzafooka kuposa okondedwa anu. Adzaganiza ngati izi: "Ndichifukwa chiyani ndikumufuna iye ngati atachita bwino popanda ine?". Ndipo kachiwiri, iwe umatenga ntchito ya munthu, yomwe siidzakupangitsani iwe kukhala wachikazi kwambiri.
  6. Ndipo potsiriza, otsiriza, pumula kwambiri. Kugona kwabwino ndikulonjeza osati kokha kukongola kwakunja, komanso kwa maganizo abwino omwe ndi ofunika kwa mkazi weniweni. Yesetsani kugona maola asanu ndi atatu pa tsiku, osapereka tulo kuti mupeze zosowa zapakhomo (monga kuyeretsa nyumba, kukonzekera chakudya chamadzulo atatu, ndi zina zotero)

Tikukhulupirira kwambiri kuti malangizo athu a momwe tingakhalire achikazi adzakuthandizani kuti mukhulupirire nokha ndikusintha moyo wanu.